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kinda scared.
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 12:51 am
Okay so me and my b/f have been going out since March 1st. and liek I really like him I do. We have only kissed 2 times. But for some reason i'm kinda scared to make out wit him ( no he is NOT my first boyfriend, and i HAVE made out plenty of tiems) But for some reason I am. I'm scared to hang out with him alone. Like I always want a friend with me. I DONT KNOW WHY!!
but can someone help me ??
becuase i dont know how not to be scaredd lol.
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makeout
Posted Sunday March 4 2007, 12:38 am
how do you make out?
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I cant stop liking him
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:57 pm
Im going to try and make a long story short.
I like this boy, ive liked him for a long long time now.
We used to hangout and all that led to us having sex and stuff.
Most of his friends ,dont like me.
All of them are mean to me.
They call me names and whatnot, but thats because im a pushover and i dont do ANYTHING to stop them.
The boy i like, is nice to me when we are alone.
But in front of his friends he's rude and stuff and he wants me to think he hates me in general.
His best friend told me that he honestly likes me, and thinks im pretty but just acts like he hates me to be cool like his friends.
His best friend said that he wants me to think that he hates me, which I do get...
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younger crush
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:47 pm
15/f. first of all is it weird that i'm in 9th grade and i like an 8th grader? anyway the guy i like is super nice to everyone but the problem is that he has a girlfriend. his girlfriend goes to another school so i don't actually know her but i heard that she can be a realy b****. anyway i've started talking to him afterschool and he is so nice to me and a lot of the time he seems like he's flirting with me. like the other day he hugged me, and he is always asking me to come with him and follow him if he goes somewhere. then when i sit down he always sits next to me and then leans in real close (its kinda ackward actually lol). well we are in the play together and he was trying to twirl this one girl. and the girl messed up and he was jokin...
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need help.
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:44 pm
I have guys friends right and i have a bf. My boyfriends always get jealous sometimes if i talk to them.Some of them i liked in the past but it was just to get over the bf i have know(becz he broke up w/ me) but is there anyway that i can get my bf not mad at me and i can still hang with my guy friends.. HELP IS NEEDED> Lotss
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ex-boyfriend issues
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:04 pm
ok i went out with a guy this summer he was pretty much the definition of asshole - i was unexperienced and um, not very assertive, so he ended up using me, cheating on me with AT LEAST 3 girls in a period of 2 months, and smoking right in front of me after i told him over and over how much i hated it. and we hardly even talked. it was the stupidest relationship ever, and unfortunately my first, but at least i learned a lesson. we go to different schools so we hardly hung out when we were going out, and i havent seen him since the day before i broke up with him, we dont talk much... i try to be nice to him if he like messages me or anything but its usually just a "hey whatsup" conversation. anyway now, 4 or 5? months later he ...
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HELP!!! does this mean something?
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 10:50 pm
ok, so i have a friend. let's call him abraham. he just broke up with one of my best friends, who we'll call sally. sally broke up with him in a really horrible way about 2 weeks ago. after the breakup, i helped him get through it and i talked to him on the phone and we've become really close. so he's getting better and sally doesn't know that we're close. so i've been saying for a while that i'm really excited for the girl's sweet sixteen. so this is an excerpt from an online conversation.
abraham: so now that you and [my ex] are over
abraham: and me and sally are over
abraham: i wonder what's going to happen at the sweet sixteen.
does this mean something or am i imagining meaning? he took a whil...
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controlling much?
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 10:37 pm
ok so recently my bf has been ignoring me when he's wit his friend..(not answering my calls texts)..wen he's wit me he's great and very attentive..we've been togethere for a year and a hafl and..this has happened in the past..but we fixed it..and now it is starting to happen again.. He gets really mad at me for really stupid reasons( like if im running a few mins late to his house) but whenver i get mad he for some reason gets mad at me for being mad becuase he doesn't think my reasons are legitimate. For examplle tonite he basically ditched me to hang out with friends. I wanna put my foot down but i'm afraid he won't take my seriously, or will just get mad at me..what do i do?
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my best friends boyfriend
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 9:46 pm
the day me and my best friend met her current boyfriend we both though he was super cute. but he ended up hooking up with her. i tell her i think hes hot and shes like i know. i kinda get jealous when were all together because i do like him. but its weird because we always like play fight like say you scare me or w/e. how do i find out if he likes me and is it bad that i want him to?
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Porn problem
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 9:20 pm
So my boyfriend said I could use his computer to edit photos of the two of us. While I was doing so, I threw one away accidently and went to the recycle bin to retrieve it. I found all kinds of porn movies that he had downloaded. It literally made me sick: especially since he and I took dirty pictures and made dirty movies that he has on his computer. Why would he want to watch other girls and not me? It makes me extremely jealous.
My question is: how do I bring this up to him? I was by no means snooping, but I think it might come of that way. I have a feeling he'll get defensive as well. I just need a place to start from. Do I tell him the story of how I found it? Do I just come out and say "You looking at porn is hurtful to me"? Thank you for the advice in advance.
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Jealousy.
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 9:18 pm
Is there any way to overcome it?...Like okay.
15/f
I like this guy. He told me he didn't want to be with me. Now he has a girlfriend. Since he's my best friend, he urges me to make friends with the girl (let's call her Jill). Jill is a nice girl. She's sweet, kind and caring. But I hate her. And you can guess why. It's because SHE'S his girlfriend and not me. When we're talking together....HE always flirts with Jill...telling her he loves her...and telling her that she's his fiance. It pisses the HELL out of me. I effing HATE her!!!!! How do I overcome this jealousy?
whenever we talk...I feel like killing her. and him. lol
:(
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I think I like my friend's BF!!
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 8:29 pm
Well...my friend has this really cute boyfriend and whenever I see him and her together I get a little jealous.He talks to me but he just talks to me a little.What do I do??
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Im 16 and my love has been shackled and it seems like they w
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 8:12 pm
Okay I have this guy that I truely love and he knows that i love him but at the same time he has a girlfriend and it doesnt look like they are going to break up at any point in time but he also seems to flirt with me continuly on and on everyday! When Im walking in the halls at school he will automatically give me a hug and speak to me no matter who sees! What should I do because I pray every night that they would break up and I could have him all to myself! So what should I do?
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Porn question
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 7:36 pm
I love your answer to the girl who asked if it's okay to feel jealous if her boyfriend watches porn. I whole-heartedly agree with you that if it is hurting her, he should respect that.
That being said, my boyfriend said I could use his computer to edit photos of the two of us. While I was doing so, I threw one away accidently and went to the recycle bin to retrieve it. I found all kinds of porn movies that he had downloaded. It literally made me sick: especially since he and I took dirty pictures and made dirty movies that he has on his computer. Why would he want to watch other girls and not me? It makes me extremely jealous.
My question is: how do I bring this up to him? I was by no means snooping, but I think it might come...
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Guys
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 6:55 pm
If a guy says a girl is "Alright" and then says another girl is "Cute". Is one better then the other, or does he basically mean the same thing about both girls?
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Getting over him but not quite
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 6:54 pm
any suggestions as to how i can get over a guy???
i have/had a big crush on my friend but he basically regected me so im trying to get over it. how mite i do that exactly. i keep saying to myself: i dont like him. and if anyone asks then i'll say i dont. but i still do a lil. and imagine if wen i get over him, he decides to like me?
thanx ppl
SAM
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Conflict?
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 6:19 pm
I want a healthy relationship.
Before, I thought I did have one. I told a friend that I never had a fight with my boyfriend at the time. We were going out for about 9-11 months straight and we haven't had any argument [screaming, avoiding calls, etc kind of thing]
She said WE WOULD HAVE A FIGHT. and that our relationship would be healthy if it did.
but we never did.
Is Conflict a MUST for a good relationship?
Because I'm all good and there' no problems.. like fights. I honestly don't like drama.
Is that bad?
In my relationships we don't fight.. It's just something we don't do. We talk about things and compromise
Is that .. wrong or what?
Or was she jealous?
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love life problems
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 6:07 pm
ok i really like this one guy i mean i really like him i went out with another guy but then broke up with him when i realized i still liked this other guy so what do ido to get this other guy who is scared of commitment and also he likes me and i kissed him when i went to a dance with him a few weeks ago.please help
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should i date him!!!!!!!!!??????????? help me
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 5:48 pm
okay i like this boy jeremy one day in class i decided 2 tell his friend timothy that i liked him so timothy told Z and the next day was like timothy told me u like jeremy and i was like sooooo and then i said what did you tell jeremy and he was like i told him that you liked him and i said why did you do that and he said he likes you i was like no he doesnt so z said i swear to god he said that and i was like you still lying because he told me he doesent want a girlfriend right now when i asked him did he like this other girl then z said he lying because he be telling me and hakim to hook him up with girls and i said other girls ?like who?and he saisd none of your business !!! but do u want to go with him and i did not respond
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young love?
Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 5:32 pm
Is it possible to fall in love when you are thirteen?
Im asking because its been 7 mounths since my ex bf broke up with me and now we are good friends and everytime i see him I cry because I know he'll never like me so do you think its puppy love?
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