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love life problems
ok i really like this one guy i mean i really like him i went out with another guy but then broke up with him when i realized i still liked this other guy so what do ido to get this other guy who is scared of commitment and also he likes me and i kissed him when i went to a dance with him a few weeks ago.please help
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Hey,
okay, I'm alittle confused, for further reference, i would have been easier if you'd given the guys nams or numbers or letters or something. But thats okay. so theres two guys and one you dated and broke up with and want to get back together with, and the other one is just there and broke up with now to get the other one. k, so you want to get back together with one of the two, I think the first one, but you can't because he has commitment problems. Okay, well first thing, commitment problems means either they just wanna be friends or they wanna be friends with benifits. Either way ew. Don't get into it.
WEll there are two paths here. Theres the one where you attempt to get him to commit to you, or the one where you quit and move on.
K so path one, well first things first talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. He'll tell you either that he doesnt want a girlfriend right now (move to path b) or that he wants a girlfriend and you are the one he wants. then theres no more problems right.
K path b, well it's time to move on. I dont think you shoudl go back to the guy you ditched (one of the above.) I think maybe you should move onto another guy. Seeing as that wasnt your question I wont bore you with move on tips. But I am the queen of move on tips, so if you choose path b then let me know.
As far as getting guys who have commitment problems thats hard, but from what i can tell you already went out with him, so why did you break up with him before? Commitment problems? Maybe you shouldn't get back into it. But if it wasnt that big of a deal, then talk to him about it. Tell him you really want to be with him. And see what he says. I think that if you talk to him, then you should know where to go from there. If not let me know tho!
Lots of love, and I hope I helpped.
Angie91
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If he likes you, then he shouldn't be held back because of his fear of commitment. Honestly, ask him out & let him know that things will be fine.
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wow, i have the same problem. i know its sooo weird when you like a guy thats scared to commit(ugh!!). it can be really tough. i think the best is to talk to him and tell him how you feel. tell him that it will work out, and convince him that its a good idea. and if he still doesnt want to,just listen to what he has to say. i really hope this works out. if you take my advice i would like to know what he says. good luck!!
SAM
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