Hey,
One of my best friends put a video of me on you tube, and I really want her to take it off. It is a stupid video, and I've asked her to take it off before. You see she's sortof immature, and she just shruggs and laughs it off. I don't know what to do. I really don't want a video of me on the internet like that. Like what if someone important sees it, like someone who might be offering me a job or something like that. Obviously theres not a huge risk of that, but I'm sure you can see why I wouldnt want to have a video of me on the internet.
I've tried so many things in the past to try and pursuade her to do things (I know that sounds bad lol, just liek things like take a bad picture of me off her site, or stop telling one of my friends a secret I told her.It's gotten to a point where I cant tell her things anymore with out her going out and telling someone.) But I can't seem to figure out a way that works. She put a video of one of my other friends on it too, and she got mad, and threatend not to do something for her I think it was send her pictures she really wanted or something. Anyway, I don't think threatening her is the answer, so how do I get through to her. Shes one of my best friends, and I love her, but sometimes she does these things that drive me crazy.
Also is there anyway someone can just go in and take a video off you tube? If so how?
Any help on this would be amazing. Thank you so much.
christina answered Saturday March 3 2007, 10:02 pm: I think she's being really rude about it. You've asked her nicely, and she just laughs at you, & does nothing to change it. I think you should confront her one more time & if she doesn't, then stop talking to her so she knows you're serious about this. But I wouldn't get too upset, YouTube is for entertainment purposes, and it's not too serious. But, talk to her about it again, & if she doesn't do anything, stop talking to her. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
looloo12 answered Saturday March 3 2007, 8:58 pm: i dont think you can take a video off of youtube unless YOU put it on there. but maybe ask her for her password to it so you can "see something that you can only see if you have an account" if that doesnt work maybe you should try threatening her, i mean if she is being a bad friend lately what have you got to lose? if you really dont want to do that maybe invite her to your house one night and say "hey, will you get on your youtube account, i heard there was a really funny video on it" and then when you're "looking for the video" aske her if she can go get you some paper and a pen so you can "write down the title of the video" or something like that. and while shes gone delete the video QUICKLY! ifthis doesnt work contact youtube because there are laws that say you can't put pics, info, et cetera about other people without their permission.
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