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I cant stop liking him


Question Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 11:57 pm

Im going to try and make a long story short.
I like this boy, ive liked him for a long long time now.
We used to hangout and all that led to us having sex and stuff.
Most of his friends ,dont like me.
All of them are mean to me.
They call me names and whatnot, but thats because im a pushover and i dont do ANYTHING to stop them.
The boy i like, is nice to me when we are alone.
But in front of his friends he's rude and stuff and he wants me to think he hates me in general.
His best friend told me that he honestly likes me, and thinks im pretty but just acts like he hates me to be cool like his friends.
His best friend said that he wants me to think that he hates me, which I do get that vibe.
The Boy i like is constantly trying to get my attention but at the same time he has a girlfriend.
His bestfriend said he likes ME and The girlfriend.
I dont talk to the boy i like, at all anymore.
I used to talk to him on the phone,aim,myspace,hangout all the time.
Now its maybe two words, but hes always trying to get my attention by saying mean things to me.
Please dont tell me to get over him because if he honestly does like me, I want my chance eventually!
I just dont know what to do anymore, its very hard to talk to the boy I like,; so i dont know if I'll be able to do it.
Can anyone help?


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sugarplum07 answered Sunday March 4 2007, 9:24 am:
This might be hard for you to accept, but please allow me to explain before you start hating me.

The boy you like is a complete jerk.
He is NOT a good guy AT ALL.

No girl deserves a boyfriend that will treat her that way ANYTIME OR ANYWHERE!

Even if he does like you, he has a horrible way of showing it. Don't waste your time on a guy like him. If he's rude to you in front of his friends now, what makes you think he'll stop even if you two go out?

In my opinion, I don't think he will ever go out with you, simply because he needs to impress his friends. Even if he does like you and think you're pretty, he seems WAY to immature because of the way he acts around you.

You don't have to put up with hearing all those mean things. It's not worth it. I promise you that there are WAY better guys out there. Guys that will treat you with the utter respect that you deserve. Guys that will be proud to show you off in front of their friends.

All you have to do is convince yourself that you deserve a guy like that. Yes, that involves getting over the boy you like now. Yeah, it is really hard getting over someone like that. I never said it wasn't. But I am saying that it is something you NEED to do for your own good.

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