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first boyfriend


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:16 pm

i'm with my very first boyfriend. i've been with him a couple weeks and everything has been great. except one thing, i hardly ever see him. i've only seen him once and we've been dating since the end of Febuary. I really want to see more of him, but i don't really know what to do. almost all of my friends have a girlfriend or boyfriend (guys and girls btw) and they've already been saying "i love you" and stuff. I guess i just feel kind of prude because i've never even got kissed before. i'm kind of afraid to be kissed too..even though i know he wants too. and i really want to go for it. but how do you do it?

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i still love him


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 5:01 pm

im trying to forget about this boy i have really really liked for so long but i cant i talk 2 him but only about stupid things i cant get over him because i still love him soo soo much what shall i do ? :( help

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i love him


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 4:43 pm

i really really like this boy named james i cant stop thinking about him its just i know he will never be interested in an ugly girl like me. and all my friends know i fancy him and they wind me up. ii dont know what 2 do cos i really really like him but i know he wont be interested in me :( can you please help me :(

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I found porn on his computer...


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 3:59 pm

Today I was searching on my boyfriend's video playlist, and I discovered about 4, maybe 5 pornographic videos...I confronted him about it, and he broke down, saying he had forgotten about them, and that they had been there before we started dating...I think believe him...but I'm still not sure what to think...any thoughts?

Thank you...

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Afraid to get hurt.


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 12:03 pm

I sorta like this guy at my school who is younger than me and is a Sophmore and I'm a Junior,& he plays varsity baseball. I've just been getting over a guy and starting fresh anew. I don't want to get used or my feelings hurt again.. Just about every guy has hurt my feelings, mostly liking me and then turning around and liking someone else or leading me on. I'm scared to try again about this one.He's in my lunch, and I've already talked to a mutual friend about him like asking him his name so he told me. This guy Frank* gives my eye contact, and looks at me, but I usually don't look at him when I see him looking at me. Any takes or suggestions on how to start talking to him?.

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not sure on what to do


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 10:34 am

like i dont have a good relation ship with any guy right now because i just moved. well ever since i moved i wanted to have sex with my ex. i dont even like him that much any more. but everytime i see him that "feeling" comes back. I am very christain i just dont no why i am havin these thoughts?
any help?

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inlove with other girl


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 4:36 am

ok im dating this girl and we are doing good
but i meet this other girl that im inlove with and i feel like losing my love for my gf
what should i do?

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Ex-BF


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 4:33 am

this summer im going 2 sleepaway camp and my ex-bf is gnna b there w/ all his friends from out of town and i know they are going to ask me abut going out with him like im talking to this guy on the phone and hesone of my ex's friends and hes like "so i heard ya went out w/ ____" and i was like "uch dont remind me" because it was all pretty much lies but if i was in his spot i wouldent want him to say that about me! and these are his friends like he is trying to impress them and everything and so ow do i respond? how do i say it was nice while it was hapening without sounding like i want him back because i dont!

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i want it back!


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 3:54 am

Another Love Question!
theres this boy and hes amazingly sweet. for a week straight we were texting back and forth and he was saying the nicest things and i was saying stuff back but it wasnt just talk i really ment it. and then he asked me out but my mom said no, and there are some other people who like him so i told him i wouldent be hurt if he dated somone else but he said he dosent want to date anyone else but me! and i told him that i love him and he says he loves me and it was all so perfect. but then some friends were going through my texts and he found out but it didnt bother him i dont think but then they went through them again (now i delete my texts) and i dont know if it bothered him. but i never talk to him in person be...

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Guy-friend...is the feeling NOT mutual, then?


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 2:04 am

Now, my best guy friend and I have something of a thing for each other. So we talk on the phone and stuff. But sometimes I'll be like, hey, I miss you [we're on break, so I went outta town] and he'll say something like 'yeah'. Other times, he'll say I miss you too. Just things like that.
My question is, why would he say it sometimes, and other times, just 'yeah'?
This tends to happen whenever I say anything like that. Does it mean he doesn't feel the same way?
Is it a guy thing? Or...?
Thanks!

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Boy Songs!! =]


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 1:49 am

So my boyfriend and I broke up like 2 weeks ago and Im VERY happy about it!!!

But i realized i hate him LOL.

I want some good Break up songs....
Funny ones...
MEAN ones.
I hate you ones.
Fuck you ones....

Ideas?
Please!!!

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over and done?


Posted Tuesday March 13 2007, 1:24 am

my ex boyfriend adn i were really close. i lived with him wehn i got kicked out adn everything. it was great. we had fights but we got over them. now theres a restraining order and its all screwed up. he would go to jail if he was caught talking to me. and he does if i call him. but he complains the whole time. we argue but talk. i dont know. its hard to explain. i love him adn he says he loves me, but in the past he has hurt me very badly. i want to get over him. he has a new gf adn im trying to find someone. but they dont seem to compare to him. i miss him. he told me on the phone tonight that i need to prove he won't get into trouble, how do i do that. adn how will he know. then in 3 or 4 months we can see where it goes. what the hell. should i try to be with him or not


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Boys are so confusing!


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 11:26 pm

So this whole year has been nothing but trouble for me and this one particular boy. He finally broke up with his girlfriend and then after that we were basically together and everyone thought it was so cute...then he started getting confused and liked this other girl, but i got rid of her..haha...then MY FRIEND went behind my back and told him i didnt have feelings for him anymore!! Lets just say we arent friends anymore...he was "talking" to her for like 2 weeks and then he ended it with her and sort of came back to me...i dont know if he likes me..but that same friend called me and was like i think he likes you...but i dont know what to think about this...he just asked me to prom and im super excited...does he like me again?

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Breakup.


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 10:50 pm

I've been broken up with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 months now. I'm still really upset, he seemed to care for me so much while we were together, but the day we broke up he just stopped talking to me. I literally talk to him MAYBE once every week. I hate thinking about him everyday, and why he doesn't care, etc. I don't know what to do to stop thinking about him. I've tried hanging out with others, but there's still time once I get home to think about him. Any suggestions? I'm really hurting. I'm listening to the song outta my system over and over right now, because that's exactly how I feel. :/

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Age of Consent


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 10:48 pm

ok, my boyfriend is 21 and i am 16, and i was reading about the age of consent laws in my state and this is what it said...
FLORIDA 18

The age of sexual consent is 16 for adults who are under 24 years of age,
or if the adult that is 24 years of age or older is married to the minor.

does that mean he cant get into trouble if we are dating and/or do anything sexual?




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that one guy


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 10:20 pm

so theres this guy and well we used to like each other. but over the previous summer we started to fight about stupid stuff and then he started dating one of my friends (this is actually the 3rd friend he has dated, but the first two were before we got close) but after he hooked up with her we stopped talking and i was so mad at him for blowing me off that i just stopped trying. now 8 months later he starts talking to me and i think that i might still have some feelings for him, even though i was so mad at him. Should i start accociating with him again or should i let him have it one last time? i'm really confused

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tips for talking on the phone or on aim


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 9:13 pm

15/dude

i like this girl and it's really easy for me to talk to her face to face, but when it comes to other forms of communication, im a dork beyond belief...
my question is once you have a girl's phone # or SN what are really good tips and topics that i can use?
help is always appreciated! :)


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make him notice me


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 8:29 pm

how do you make a boy like you? like he already likes me and he tells me that all the time but there are about 5 other people in love with him and i dont want to lose him but i cant go out with him because my mom wont let. i see him in the halls and stuff and we hang out with my friends and him on weekends but what can i say/do?
thanx!!!!!!!!

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this gilr i like


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 8:18 pm

this girl i realy like ive never raly talked to her before only trough myspace i dont heve her for any classes so i cant realy talked to her then, the only time i see her is after school when sometimes, i talked to one of her freinds who knows i like her shoul i ask her to tell her i like her or what should i do someone please help me

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you probably get this 8million times but..


Posted Monday March 12 2007, 8:09 pm

So there's this guy. i kinda like him (just a tiny bit) and im friends with him. ive been flirting he's been flirting back. and how can i get him to see me as more than just "this is my friend"- acctual quote

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