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Breakup.
I've been broken up with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 months now. I'm still really upset, he seemed to care for me so much while we were together, but the day we broke up he just stopped talking to me. I literally talk to him MAYBE once every week. I hate thinking about him everyday, and why he doesn't care, etc. I don't know what to do to stop thinking about him. I've tried hanging out with others, but there's still time once I get home to think about him. Any suggestions? I'm really hurting. I'm listening to the song outta my system over and over right now, because that's exactly how I feel. :/
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if you cant get over him then you get out of himand you should talk to someone who you can relate to like you can write him a letter about how you feel and dont send it to him to avoid embarrasmentso you canlet out all your feelings on the paper
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tatianna
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It is always hard to get over someone. Trust me it may seem hard for you, being that he broke up with you, but it is probably hard for him too. Now my bf and me broke up over a year ago for only two weeks, then he asked me back out and we worked things out and have been good ever since. Those two weeks though were pure hell to me. He cheated on me with this other girl, then dumped me, and still didnt have the balls to admit he had cheated on me and had dumped me for this girl. I was in so much pain. I couldn't stop thinking about him and how much I cared. At the time Mariah Carey's song "We Belong Together" came out and it really made me think. One part in the song says something about the other girl not ever comparing to her, and that is how I felt. I knew he had a new girl, but I knew she could never be me, never act/talk like me, never kiss like me, she could never EVER replace me in his heart. And that made me feel so much better. With that in my head I learned to move on. I hung out with other guys and realized it is not bad to be single. Sometimes break-ups are important. They teach you so much about yourself, about your ex, about past relationships, and about life. Just remember never to beat yourself up about it. He ended it for whatever reason, but realize that that is his loss. That you are worth it, and if he didnt see that in the past, he will realize it someday. Just focus on other things hun. Take a few days to think over everything you guys had. Cry, mope around, look at old pics and things you guys did together...etc. After that, take all of it and burn it, throw it away, trash it. Get rid of it. That should be a symbolism to you to move on with your life. You don't need him to be happy hun, trust me you dont. Just keep telling yourself you are worth it and that he has lost the best girl he will ever had. It will be hard, but time heals all pain. Hope I helped. Need anymore advice about this or anything else, note back my inbox. I'm always here to talk to.
~Sherah
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uch sweetie, im going through the same thing. well i was and it tore me up and i couldent sleep and then one night i met this boy and now im over the boy who broke my heart. just put your all into somthing that has nothing to do with him. just concentrate on that. it realy helps! and whenever he gets into your head say "hes a mean ugly retarded jerk and im never talking to him again" and repeat it until you believe it! good luck and take care of yourself
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