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first boyfriend
i'm with my very first boyfriend. i've been with him a couple weeks and everything has been great. except one thing, i hardly ever see him. i've only seen him once and we've been dating since the end of Febuary. I really want to see more of him, but i don't really know what to do. almost all of my friends have a girlfriend or boyfriend (guys and girls btw) and they've already been saying "i love you" and stuff. I guess i just feel kind of prude because i've never even got kissed before. i'm kind of afraid to be kissed too..even though i know he wants too. and i really want to go for it. but how do you do it?
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I know it would be hard since you see everybody else having fun with their bf and gf but you have been with him for a couple weeks right? You don't want to go fast into everything. And if you are scared to kiss him you don't have to you can wait till the right moment. Hey maybe this web site might help...
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don't follow everything your friends do. just because they say "i love you" to their "significant other" doesn't mean you have to. most of the people i know, they say i love you to their boyfriend/girlfriend, but at the end of the relationship, they act like they never liked the person they were with and stuff. my first boyfriend, was when i was 12 yrs. old. i said i love you to him about a month into our relationship. though, i now know that maybe i didn't LOVE him, i knew that i really did like him ... A LOT. i miss him [we broke up about 6 months after we started going out and stuff], and i'm still kinda friends with him.
just because you haven't gotten a kiss before doesn't mean your a loser or whatever. that boy i was talking about was my first kiss, too. yes, first boyfriend = first kiss. atleast it was to me. but you don't have to do that. kiss when you feel like you really want him to be your first kiss, not because you feel like if you don't kiss somebody now, everybody's gonna hate you. what my ex did, he actually asked me if he could kiss me. of course i said yes. but it wasn't til about 15 mins. after he asked me that we really did it. he flirted with me first, holding my hands, hugging me really tight, saying i love you every 2 mins., etc. then, he kissed my cheek, then i moved and we kissed in the lips. now, you don't have to do that, but it sure was pretty sweet.
as for wanting to see him, you don't have to see each other every day to have a relationship. yes, that would've been so much better, but a relationship isn't all about seeing each other. it's also about getting to know each other, enjoying each other's company when you can. i suggest you go to the movies every now and then. or go to bowling. just do something together. get some friends to come with you if your parents don't want you all alone with him. but just try to find time to spend with each other. in your case, and mines too back then, cherish every minute you have with each other. it'll feel so much special.
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well hun, it depends how old you are. (( and your friends)) sorry to say, but if your in the middle school((mainly)) then saying "i love you" doesnt really mean anything, cause your not old enough to know what love is, and since this is your first relationship, it'll take more then one to know what love is. and all your friends that are saying i love you, basically doesnt know what love is. now if you been with someone for like a year, yea you must love them. but dating for a couple of weeks is nothing..
&& to see him more, make dates, or if your to young to go on dates, when make it every friday or saturday, or just a free day you guys are not doing anything and hang out, make sure you plan this ahead of time. take turns hanging out at each others house's..
now kissing, its really not that hard. just massage his tongue with yours, dont put it all the way in the back of his mouth, but yea, open your mouth pretty wide and itll be more fun, gooood luck!!...
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