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i love him
i really really like this boy named james i cant stop thinking about him its just i know he will never be interested in an ugly girl like me. and all my friends know i fancy him and they wind me up. ii dont know what 2 do cos i really really like him but i know he wont be interested in me :( can you please help me :(
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I have to tell you something that's really important to know and learn -- If you don't love yourself, then no one else will.
It has to start on the inside, and you need to build your confidence. Everyone is beautiful, in their own special way. That's what's so great about being different from someone else, not only do you have your own personal qualities, but so do they. So you have to find what makes you special, and find that place where you feel confident and love yourself for who you are.
About the boy, you never know, he just might like you! And trust me, even if he doesn't -- there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and you aren't an ugly person! I will tell you that I have met some of the most physically beautiful girls and young women, and they are ugly girls. Because of their personalities and their actions. Just because someone is very beautiful physically, does not mean they are a beautiful person.
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First of all, nobody will like you until you LIKE YOURSELF! :) Start off by making a list of TEN things you love about yourself. Seriously, it helps. Don't be dumb about it, really get into it. You don't have to ever show anyone. Use adjectives to describe yourself.. smart, intelligent, beautiful.. even if you don't feel that way, you will eventually if you keep telling yourself that you are __(beautiful, smart, etc)__!
The worst that could happen is he WILL NOT be interested in you. Big deal, right? Not the end of the world at all. So make a move.. just try talking to him. Small talk at first. Then maybe you can say that you and your friends are all going to see a flick & you want him (and/or some of his friends) to tag along.. I mean like I said the worst that could happen is he says no. And then you move on and find a new guy to love! :)
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What you need is some confindence and a great self-esteem.. Why would you lower yourself like that?? But anyways try to impress him all you need to do is just let him know how you feel. When your around him just look the best you could be because you wanna make him want you and like you. Just look pretty Im pretty sure you not ugly dont down yourself!!
Hope I helped
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omg is your name vicky?
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STOP BEING SO NEGATIVE!!!!!!!
negativity will get you NO WHERE in life!!!!!!!!
you HAVE to stay positive and look at the bright things in life. How do you even know that he doesn't like you???
just try to be around him, talk to him about small things like the homework for a class.... then talk to him about interests.
Get to know him! then after a while, ask him out.
Its OK to ask a guy out. So what if he rejects you!! build a bridge and get over it. There's going to be PLENTY of guys who you are going to go out with. This is just 1 guy! YOU CAN DO IT!
-volleyball2150
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