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Shy Guy
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 1:40 am
Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her?
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2 many boys!
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 12:32 am
there are two boys.
the first one, ill call "BOB", his mom is my moms best friend. hes a few months younger then me, and hes so nice to me. he says i should be a model and all of this hes so nice. and i really like hanging out and talking with him. he hangs out in my group and im going to have to deal with seeing him for the ret of my life. our familys go on vacation together and everything. also, our names are next to eachother in the alphabet! our initials i mean. we have the whole "i love you" thing back and forth and he says he wouldent want to go out with anyone but i cannot go out with him because my mom will not let, she says hes to close of family. now i cant even seem to form a normal sentence when he...
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I'm hurting!
Posted Thursday March 15 2007, 12:16 am
I'm in love with a grown man, sometimes it feels as though he may like me too, but I can't do much about it because he's one of my teachers and I just found out he was married while overhearing a conversation he was having with someone else... he's never mentioned it to me... but I love him, and this hurts and being around him hurts and i can't stop thinking about him and he's such a sweet guy and we get along great.. i've tried avoiding him, but that messes up my whole day and I feel like shit. What can I do?
19/f
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stupid me
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 10:29 pm
I have been having sex with a guy for about 5 months now that I have been really good friends with for years. I love him very much. I also lost my virginity to him. He is 21 and I just turned 18. He doesnt want a relationship but he hasnt exactly been acting like a friend to me either. I do everything I can for him, but he wont go anywhere with me.... just his apartment when no one else is there. He has had less and less contact with me lately, and acts like he cares, but my best friends (who are friends with him too) tell me he is using me and its a waste of my time and to stop talking to him totally. I dont know what to do and how to completely stop talking to him if thats what I should do. It hurts so much. When I try not to talk to him,...
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Abusive relationship?
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 9:56 pm
**I hit my boyfriend yesterday, i didnt mean to hit him that hard. I slapped him in the face really hard, left a mark, plus it was really loud.
**I did it out of anger and surprise, we've been going out forever, but it really was stupid of me to overreact that way.
**He called me fat- kinda, he used the word "plump" which i hate.
**So, I was really pissed for a while and after school I realized that he was too. Instead of stopping where we usually do to hang out, he sped up kinda walking in front of me and didnt hold my hand. Then he looked back and saw that i was hur and was all sweet and comforting, but somehow I was still mad him.
**On the phone, he said that he was only joking and...
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How?
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 9:55 pm
15/f
I kinda like my best firend. He is seriously the most amazing guy I;ve ever met. And he's kind of confused lately. He has a girlfriend but he doesn't know if he wants to stay with her or go out with me. And I feel really bad cuz he told his girlfriend this and she is obviously mad. But he still doesn't know. And I don't want to get my hopes up. How do I do that?
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Senior Love
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:45 pm
Im going ont hsi weekend hting with my whole entire school. menaing grades 9-12. im a freshmen girl with a major crush on a senior!! He knows i have like on obsessive crush!! lol!!! We spoke like twwice but i wanna tlak ot him more!! what should i do? How do i just go over and..talk/flirt? Seniors r the shi* in my school and its hard to go over and talk, like i need to do something!!
Help!
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My friend has a love issue.
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:38 pm
Okay, so i have this friend of mine. His name is Ryan. He likes my other friend Samantha, but she doesn't like him at all whatsoever. So, Ryan is trying to impress or trying to figure out how he can win her over, but i am fresh out of ideas haha. I was wondering if anyone could give me advice as to what i should do in this kind of situation.
Thanks
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a deal among friends
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:14 pm
ok so i was just at my friends house. we were all chilling, girls and guys and we started talking about hooking up. i had said that i hadn't been kissed in a year and we were all talking about how depressing my situation was. so one of my guy friends said "i'll kiss you if stacy** kisses john**" (names are substituted). so we all agreed willingly. now i liked this guy friend who said he was going to kiss me but he doesn't know that. so anyways my girl friend and my guy friend kiss. so then my girl friend says "ok now you owe her because she needs it" and my guy friend says "yeah i will later". so he's about to leave and everybody's giving hugs as their leaving because thats what we do. so im about to give my gu...
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Shy Girl
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 7:08 pm
Let's start this off by saying that I'm a gay, highschool aged girl. I started noticing this cute girl constantly taking glances at me in one of my classes. I mentioned this to a friend of mine who had known that said girl liked her and said girl had done the same thing to her. I am fairly certain she likes me because she's also made attempts to go out of her way to talk to me before that class. However, she's very shy.
I recently just told her that I knew she liked me, that I liked her, and that we should go out discreetly by whisper, and she replied with an indifferent, hard-to-read "ok". And it was sort of ignored after that because it made things awkward.
I have tried to make arrangements to hang...
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I want to be friends with someone I don't know at all....
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 6:18 pm
Okay so this is a little hard to explain. I kind of have a crush on a guy I don't know. He works at my local coffeehouse and we've talk a few times (other than the mandatory, 'what would you like today?') He's a few years older than me.
Basically, I just want to be his friend, for now. I don't know how I could do this, though. Could anyone give me suggestions on how you would go about befriending someone like that?
15/f
If you need more information to give me advice...
AIM = christine iii
MSN = maroulisfan@gmail.com
Thanks a lot. :)
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guy i like has a girlfriend =[
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 5:39 pm
well basically the subject says it all. i'm 15 and in 9th grade and the guy i like is in 8th grade. but he has a girlfriend that is in 9th grade that goes to another school. i've never met his girlfriend, so i don't know how well their relationship is. but i REALLY like him, and it seems like he is flirting with me a lot. he is always IMing me, he says hi to me everytime we see each other in the hallway, he always bumps into me in the hall on purpose (but in a fun cute way), and he has a nickname for me. he is already a really friendly person, it just seems like i'm getting a little extra attention. anyway thats not the point. the point is he has a girlfriend but i like him. what can i do? should i try to flirt with him so maybe he will bre...
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letting go...
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 5:03 pm
i don't get it. when i get into a relationship and i want to be serious about it i let all my guy friends go, and my guy friends are fine with that cuz they understand me and how i don't beleive in cheating and shit.
but my problem with my boyfriend now is that he kind of makes a big deal out of it, i just finely got him to fix his damn myspace top friends thing, cause it was me and like 50 million other girls.
i trust my boyfriend, but shit like that makes me 2nd guess, he hasn't done anything to prove me wrong, if i'm not at his house we are on the phone will we go to sleep pretty much.
i just don't know what i need to do. cause i think it pisses him off when i bring shit like that up. but yet he is glad i tell him s...
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i love him
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 4:58 pm
i love this boy named james but all my friends wind me up because they know he wont go out wiv me.and they make fun of him and i dont like it cos i really really love him :(
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Steven
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 3:49 pm
Ok Steven is a nice sweet awsome kid but he's one of the 'cool' kids.Everyone likes him and only like 3 girls like him like him..one girl Olivia is already going out with someone and had already gone out with Steven 1000 times!But he keeps going out with her.Alot of people know i like him nad tel me to ask him.Right now stevens single.. but right when olivia dumps mat the same things ganna happen there ganna go back out.. I dont want to be used until someone better comes along..
Should I go out with him and iof i should how should i ask him
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What does it mean?
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 12:42 pm
What does it mean when a guy is completely infatuated with you & then all of a sudden cools off & doesn't even show an interest anymore but says he still likes you?
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Buying a gift
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 10:28 am
I have a boyfriend and we're really close and all that...I'm getting him his gift and I have to have it by March 30th.I was thinking...We were at the mall together and he saw 1) a ring he LOVED 2) a poster he wanted SO badly...all together it costs about 25 $...do you think this will be a good gift ??
[PS.We've been going out almost a month]
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Having Troubles!
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 6:55 am
lately my bf and I were not that ok like were not like before that we would always make flirt with each other now we just sit with each other then ask if were ok then we became quiet. Do you think what should I do to make our relationship interesting and fun?..Ü
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confused
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 4:43 am
ok heres the thing.. i possibly need to be somewhere else to enhance my carreer, but not only that, there is a guy down there that i no will appreciate me and wont to be with me.. now here atm, i am with a guy, have been for about 8 months now.. things are a bit etchy, like the number of texts has decreased etc, i asked him y and he said hes just doesnt like sendiing texts all together.. but heres the thing, i want to be with him, and the only reson y im stayn her is for him.. but i need to know if im doing the right decision.. this is wat ive decided to do.. i no its wrong but hey.. i got a new sim card, and am pretending to be someone else, i havent done this as of yet, this is y im askin yous.. and im going to see if some random hot chi...
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what does 381 mean?
Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 3:27 am
i love you
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