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I kinda like my best firend. He is seriously the most amazing guy I;ve ever met. And he's kind of confused lately. He has a girlfriend but he doesn't know if he wants to stay with her or go out with me. And I feel really bad cuz he told his girlfriend this and she is obviously mad. But he still doesn't know. And I don't want to get my hopes up. How do I do that?
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If you like him, wait until things with him & his girlfriend are done. Getting in the middle of their relationship can cause problems, and it already did, because now she's pissed.
Back off for a bit until they're done.
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As you said, obviously, his girlfriend is mad about him liking you. That couldn't be with held in any relationship, that's a normal reaction. If that's bothering you, I suggest talking to her about it. However, as I'm sure you wouldn't -- you cannot blame her for being angry.
It's funny, because I'm practically or I was in the same situation as you are. Only difference, my best friend broke up with his girlfriend, and I'm still not sure if he really likes me more than a friend. But anyway, I would talk to him again and let him know how you feel. I'm sure you have already done that, so you can skip that part. And tell him he has to make a decision, because he's left you hanging on a string for him. It isn't fair of him to do that, whether he realizes it or not.
Good luck!
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Well i think that you should let him decide. If he wants to be with you then he will be, but if he wants to be with his gf then he will be. Either way you wont be completly forgotten about because you are his bestfriend. ya noe?? So i would just wait it out and see what he decides to do. But try not to get your hopes upp. =/
good luck
KRYSTAL
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so hes that ah-mazing? thats tough. Again, this is bad to be doing but if you truly like this guy then I would suggest becoming friends with his girlfriend. Then you wont have to worry about all of the cat fights that come along or whatevs. Then when shes not around flirt with him, treat him as if hes yours. I'm pretty sure that the guy will make his decsion on who he likes. Remember you cant make that for him on he can so...Just be sneaky and treat that girl as if shes your best friend. And everything will work out just fine:)
♥KASSIDY
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