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i love him
i love this boy named james but all my friends wind me up because they know he wont go out wiv me.and they make fun of him and i dont like it cos i really really love him :(
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Your "friends" are being nasty and childish. They are sabotaging any potential relationship you could have with this guy, because no one wants to be made to look like a fool and he knows that's what will happen if he shows any feelings for you.
I'm guessing you must be fairly young, or at least I hope so, because I really can't imagine anyone over the age of fourteen to be acting the way your friends are. Even so, that's no excuse for them to hurt you like this.
I assume you're wondering what to do about the situation. It would be easier to advise you if I knew how old you and James are, but going on the assumption that you're 14 or younger, here's what I think you should do:
(1) As far as a serious relationship, give it time. Even if you are ready, he may not be. Wait until you're at least 15.
(2) Tell him that you have feelings for him (I wouldn't say the words "I love you" because that might scare him off). Try to catch him alone and in a place where your idiot friends won't interfere - that might be hard to do, but you want to make sure his reaction is real and not just for the benefit of whoever else is around. If he's not prepared to return your feelings, then try to take it well and let him know that if he ever changes his mind, you'll be around (for a while, anyway).
(3) Let your friends know that they're hurting your feelings and giving a hard time to someone you care about. Again, it might be most effective to tell them this individually, not as a group. They need to grow up. If their behavior keeps up, react as little as possible; the game will wear thin if they discover they can't get a rise out of you anymore.
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honestly if you never went out with this kid before and like him then you dont LOVE him love is such a strong word and one of my pet peeves is having people say they love someone and not even know what love really is so im sorry if that offende you. now secondly who cares what your friends think or anyone else for that matter its your life hun and you can live it however you wanna and to be honest im not trying to be mean but if he wont go out with you then hes a jerk and you should find someone who will feel the same for you as you do them otherwise its just not worth it.
hope i helped! =]
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Aaaah, don't listen to 'em. They're just being silly because they know that's what gets to you. If you love him, get to know him and see where it goes. And don't pay attention to your 'friends'...though if they were really your friends they'd care about what is important to you.
Hmm?
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