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ugh, yet another guy problem


Posted Sunday March 25 2007, 2:03 am

i really love my friend. hes awesome. and i mean love as in friends. hes my best guy friend. he always says he loves me soo much and stuff like that. but last month he found out i had a thing for him and eventually told me he didnt like me. so i "got over him" or so i told him. but really im not over him at all. haha. one of my other friends likes him too and he knows but its like he doesnt really care about her. but no one knows i still like him. he treats me different than all his other friends. he is extra nice to me. he plays around w/ me all the time and hugs me and comes up behind me and all these nice things. the problem is he will never ask me out, even if he does like me. but i wish he would. ugh its annoying cuz one of h...

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how should i react?


Posted Sunday March 25 2007, 12:32 am

i am a decent looking girl, but i have never been great around boys. i am not shy, but i am just not good at flirting. whenever i find a boy DOES like me, it always seems like they are the ones i don't like! i always find something wrong with them. this is going to sound stupid, but there's a boy in my grade who i don't know well but i have always had a feeling he likes me (he compliments me, trys to startup convos, etc.) i don't have anything against him, and i think he's nice...but sort of awkward...like not totally sure of himself). he is also sort of emo punkish...not usually my type (like he likes screamo music, etc.) it's just not really my thing. i don't know what to do...whenever i am at home i think "oh well maybe i'll give hi...

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so confused


Posted Sunday March 25 2007, 12:30 am

i am a decent looking girl, but i have never been great around boys. i am not shy, but i am just not good at flirting. whenever i find a boy DOES like me, it always seems like they are the ones i don't like! i always find something wrong with them. this is going to sound stupid, but there's a boy in my grade who i don't know well but i have always had a feeling he likes me (he compliments me, trys to startup convos, etc.) i don't have anything against him, and i think he's nice...but sort of awkward). he is also sort of emo punish...not usually my type (like he likes screamo music, etc.) it's just not really my thing. i don't know what to do...whenever i am at home i think "oh well maybe i'll give him a chance", but as soon as i ...

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Too Good


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 11:53 pm

Ok..so..i went on a date with this guy tonight and he was soo sweet. But..the problem is..im a little wild..i drink sometimes..and i cuss sometimes..i mean im your average teenager. This guy never drinks..and he just seems sooo good. Its not attractive to me..i like the bad boy image. Should i ditch this guy..or keep him around?

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is this a good true love writing thing


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 11:15 pm

its so hard to let you go and then when they let you go you cant let them go you cant stop thinking about him and you cry almost everynight and wish for another chance but you know it will never come true because you messed up so bad and you wish that you never did because you thought he was your true love the only one for you and you messed up so you lost him so you will never find your true love again and you will never have the same feelings for them then you did for him

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I Need Help With Boyfriend Probs. And Qwick !!!!!


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 10:34 pm

Hey i am a 13 year old girl and i have a boyfriend and he's like reeeeeeeeealy sweet and he loves me but.... When ever im sad he like just gives me this look as if i have done somthing to affend him. Then he just walk's off and dosen't do anything about it. so what should i do???? Can someone help me please im crying:'(

Love,
sad and no one cares!!!

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Attention whoring/manipulation advice needed!


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 10:25 pm

My boyfriend and I got in a fight today. I would really like to talk to him but I do not wish to pick up the phone and call with nothing to say.

I need to think of a voicemail I can leave him that will make him worry and once again pay attention to me.

Any advice?

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dont know what to do help =]


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 9:47 pm

okay well to start off last year i spotted this kid on my bus and as soon as i looked at him, it felt like it was love at first sight. i saw him and was like wow theres something about him that is special and unique that ill always remember. he had the most gorgeous eyes ive ever seen and his smile brightened my day. i was friends with his friends and i used to sit with them and finally i got introduced and started talking to him and we got along well and became good friends. then we started not talking so much but still managed to talk here and there. my friends were in my grade which at the time was towards the end 8th and he was finishing 6th. i thought it was kinda werid that maybe i liked sumone 2 years younger than me. it was almost ...

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Mom interfering with my relationships.


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 9:37 pm


13/f New boyfriend, we've been going out for about a week. I know a week isn't alot, but I like him alot. I mean, alot.

So yesterday I went iceskating with him, and these "a-holes that he goes to class with" were like, "makeout! makeout!" and we ended up not making out. Because who wants to makeout with everryone watching you?

So he asked me to go to the movies with him, and I really couldn't say no. So I told my mom about it. She was like, "Ill think about it" and now it turns out that shes not letting me go because I could "get into the wrong situation" or "earn myself bad repuatation" "I cant go to the movies with a boy!" So I asked one of ...

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love... ugh =[


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 8:20 pm

14/f

Okay so there is this guyy, and hes cute but i wouldnt say he's the hottest guy ive ever seen;; or atleast in our school. He's been my best friend literally foreverr. I've known him since atleast kindergarten. Not a lot of people like him as in more then a best friend (as in a boyfriend). Lately i've been noticing when ever im around him i get nervous and flirty. I've had atleast 4 boyfriends before him so its not just a 'first crush' type of thing. This kid is my bestfriend. I can tell him everything! The one thing i cant tell him, is the one thing i want to tell him!!!! That im in love with himm, :[. I don't know how to tell him. People have told him that i like him and that hasnt changed anything in between us, except...

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can guys tell if other guys are flirting?


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 6:57 pm

well about a week ago i went out to the mall with my on other girlfriend. the day was going fine, but then we saw our other 2 guy friends (nothing more what so ever). after shopping for awhile, we kinda split up in the stores, but still was with each other. while i was in this one store, i bumped into this one kid i havn't talked to in a long time, like 2 months. when we first met, 2 months prior, i found out he "had a small crush on me and thought i was cute", but he was dating someone, and after that night we never talked. after i bumped into him last week, i found out he was single. we spent like a half an hour just goofing off and talking :) maybe flirting (my friends just spyed on me in the back of the store haha). when i had...

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She's Killing Me.


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 6:13 pm

Background: I love her. I had to move last year for my work, but I made her the pledge that I would love her forever. As one of the things we did- I opened a joint back account with her- where part of my paycheck every 2 weeks would be deposited into that account. We "broke" up two months later. That account never closed. She started dating someone else. Now- she's using that account and now is spending like there's no tomorrow- 3300 dollars in 5 weeks.

But I still love her- and I can't close the account. What should I do? I don't know how to confront her if I should. I'm a fool.

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cheating?


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 5:38 pm

ok well heres the thing i think my boyfriend is cheating on my but im not 100% sure. we've been going out for almost 11 months and like last month he said he thinks that im the one. Like im the only girl he thinks hes actually been IN LOVE with. but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause i heard he was going to but then he got reallyy mad at me and we talked after shcool and he said he wasn't going he was just having a bad day and was thinking about it. so we got back together and ever sense then he has been like kind of mean to me. like now it doesn't even seem like he likes me that much. and on his myspace he has been talking to this girl named taylor and then during art yesturday he was talking to his friend zach and was just like yeahh i...

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old love


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 5:28 pm

i used to like this one boy alot. and we were always supposed to hang out and things but it just never happend and we slowly stopped talking. its hard to see him and not say anything and i really wanna get back to where we were. i thought i would be able to get over him but i cant i still really like him. what should i do to get back to where we were. how to i slowly get back to that. like flirt in the halls at school till he shows that he wants to be together again??. thanks!! so much.

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Any Ideas on what to do on first date?


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 5:02 pm

well i started dating my friend.
He was like my best guy friend and now were dating but we never hung out

any ideas on what to do on our first hang out /date???



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thrill of the chase.


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 4:04 pm


I've heard that guys like it when a girl isn't always available to go out.. when he calls, for example, she's not always available to go out, or at least pretends not to be. WHat's your opinion on this?

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How to have an air of mystery?


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 3:53 pm

There's this guy that I like and I've been sorta with him today and saw him yesterday cos we happened to go out to the same place last night.
Well anyway, I get the feeling that he's one of those guys who has lots of girls liking him and also that he probably likes the chase. So to stand out I'd like to be a bit mysterious so I'll seem different than all those other girls that are falling over him. So he'll be intrigued and want to find out more about me.

But of course I don't want to seem like I'm totally not interested or really quiet, so I how do I retain an air of mystery and make him intrigued?

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I have to kiss my boyfriend HELP!!!!


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 3:48 pm

Okay well i have a boyfriend and he loves me and cares for me and stuff but he wants to kiss me but i dont know if im ready i toled him i would but i keep puting it off . then i get pressured to do it my my friends anna, emma, and meagan. They all have boyfriends and they kiss. Do i have a problem that i cant kiss my boyfriend or not cuz i really want to kiss him. i just dont know how i should or how long. HELPPPPPP!!!!!

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i dont want to be used


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 3:08 pm

i have liked this boy for almost five years. he has always liked me too, but he is a player. he talks to my best friend a lottt and he is currently talking to 2 other girls that i know of. it just sucks because i like him so much, i really do. im infatuated with him and i always have been. i NEVER get crushes, either. he tells my other friend that he thinks i am way prettier than my best friend and he always tries to talk to me but i jsut avoid it because i don't want to be used. if i like him, should i give him a chance even if i know he isnt so trusthworthy?

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First time


Posted Saturday March 24 2007, 2:40 pm

Wel, I have been dating this girl for 2 wks now, and we havent kist yet. and it will be my first time kissing, same as hers. i dont know when to do it or where. i dont know if my lips should be dry or wet. i dont know if t shoold be long kiss or short. plz help me.

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