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ugh, yet another guy problem
i really love my friend. hes awesome. and i mean love as in friends. hes my best guy friend. he always says he loves me soo much and stuff like that. but last month he found out i had a thing for him and eventually told me he didnt like me. so i "got over him" or so i told him. but really im not over him at all. haha. one of my other friends likes him too and he knows but its like he doesnt really care about her. but no one knows i still like him. he treats me different than all his other friends. he is extra nice to me. he plays around w/ me all the time and hugs me and comes up behind me and all these nice things. the problem is he will never ask me out, even if he does like me. but i wish he would. ugh its annoying cuz one of his good friends always tries to point out that this guy likes me. but he said he didnt like me. of course he has no idea i still like him. i bet he likes me though. i really think he does, any suggestions?
SAM-14/f
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Hey Sam!
Well this is tough for me to answer because I don't know what you want to hear and so I don't know how to say this the right way so that you get the right question answered. But I'l try and cover al the bases.
Well there are basically two different ways this can go. You can continue likeing him, not getting over him wondering if he likes you when he (as you said) will never ask you out. OR you can get over him and find someone who really will go ot with you. The biggest problem with this is that he shows you loving attention in a way that isnt his true feelings, and that sends you mixed signals.
So what you have to decide right now, is whether or not you are going to choose the first path or the second. Which wouldI suggest? Well you don't have to take this portion of my adivce, because it really is up to you, but I would try and get over him. You don't have to though, and it would be very hypocritical of me to to say that you should because you're only 14 and you have lots of time o find a bf but if you are one of those people who wants to find a boyfriend while they're super young, then maybe you should try and get over him.
I think you know how to go on likeing him, but if you have any further questions about that let me know.
So if you want to move on, and actually get over him, there are a few steps. I would suggest them to you, but you don't seem too upset about this yet, and until you are like cryiong because you'll never get this guy, you probably don't need my tips. I think you will probably find a new guy soon enough, but feel free to ask if you need some moving on tips, I have a bilion of them.
I think you mostly asked this question because you don't know whether or not to actually move on or if you should just hope for the best. Well that decision is up to you, if you need help though, I'm here. Good luck, hope I helped love ya,
Angie91
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i had the same problem with my friend.. and thanx to another friend opening his big fat mouth.. we ended up going out... so if u really do still like him.. get one of ur mates 2 "slip" it to him or ask him about his thoughts about you.
hope this helped
xox
dc
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