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so confused
i am a decent looking girl, but i have never been great around boys. i am not shy, but i am just not good at flirting. whenever i find a boy DOES like me, it always seems like they are the ones i don't like! i always find something wrong with them. this is going to sound stupid, but there's a boy in my grade who i don't know well but i have always had a feeling he likes me (he compliments me, trys to startup convos, etc.) i don't have anything against him, and i think he's nice...but sort of awkward). he is also sort of emo punish...not usually my type (like he likes screamo music, etc.) it's just not really my thing. i don't know what to do...whenever i am at home i think "oh well maybe i'll give him a chance", but as soon as i see him i change my mind & feel all awkward. what should i do?!?!
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There's no reason to feel awkward. If he isn't your type, you shouldn't push yourself to like him in that way. If you think you'd like to give him a chance, instead of just saying to yourself "I'll just go out with him blah blah" why not just hang out with him as just friends first? Get to know him better and what not. If he asks you out while your hanging out as friends, and you don't feel that you're ready, or you don't feel that you know enough about him to know your answer yet, just say "I want to get to know you better before I make any decisions about us being an item"
I hope I was able to be of use in some way.
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