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How far I've gone


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 12:11 pm

So I'm a teenage girl, don't say that i'm "young" or "naive" or immature or anything, because i'm not any of those things. I have the maturity of a college student and the appearance of one. (so i've been told)

So, my problem is this. The only things i've done are: kissing a guy on the cheek/neck (it was between the two) and I had phone sex a few times. And that's all I've done exept for cybering when i was a lot younger.


I told my "friend" this because we were talking about how far we've gone- and he says "aww. I feel bad for you." because he's fooled around with many different guys. (he's gay)

Is it normal that i've only done the things i've done...

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HOW TO MOVE ON FROM MY BEST FRIEND <3...


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 11:55 am

16, female

well theres this guy, we're pretty good friends =) actually we call each other "best friends" as a joke but i fell hard for him last summer, because we would flirt soo much and it was adorable, lets just say hes a stud. but he didnt know i fell for him, and i didnt wanna say anything because he was interested in this girl and plus we were so close it would of been wayyy to awkward they but they ended up goin out and this hurt me =( keep in mind they're still going out and hes says its been like 10 months already!! anyways all summer i was sad, but we still kinda flirted. then i tried getting over him, and i finally realized i had no feelings other than just being friends with him and we could still hangou...

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I cant talk to this boy, help meee :)!


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 8:33 am

There is this boy at my school that i really really like and ive only just started to get to know him and we are getting on really well, we talk in school alot and text each other and talk on the internet but i want something more, but i dont want to rush into anything
should i wait a few weeks to see if anything develops or should i tell him how i feel about him? i dont want to scare him off
we are both going to a gig on friday night so something could happen but im scared of making a move

i really dont know what to do, i dont even know if he likes me in that way, but i guess if he didnt like me he wouldnt text me and that? i dont know

help me :)! thanks

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How can you tell when one of your "guy friends" has a crush


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 3:29 am

haha i might just be overthinking but theres this guy i've sat next to in science for like the entire year so far.. hes also in my literacy classes (theres 2, and i sat next to him twice then), and i dunno if he likes me or not, and i dunno if i like him or not either. how do you know if have a crush on a guy, or if he has a crush on you? i talk to him mostly in science though, and hes pretty funny, nice (haha i can always get gum from him), and was born in england like me so we can also talk about places there that most people dont know about since they've never actually lived there (but im jealous because he gets to visit there alot! lucky rich bastard! lol). and.. i dunno how to explain it! jeez i hope i dont get a crush on him, hes cute...

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Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 2:12 am

16, female

well theres this guy, we're pretty good friends =) actually we call each other "best friends" as a joke but i fell hard for him last summer, because we would flirt soo much and it was adorable, lets just say hes a stud. but he didnt know i fell for him, and i didnt wanna say anything because he was interested in this girl and plus we were so close it would of been wayyy to awkward they but they ended up goin out and this hurt me =( keep in mind they're still going out and hes says its been like 10 months already!! anyways all summer i was sad, but we still kinda flirted. then i tried getting over him, and i finally realized i had no feelings other than just being friends with him and we could still hangou...

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Whats his isue?


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 12:44 am

I have liked this guy for awhile and he liked meh to at one point. He always seems to find a reason to not hang out with me but i know if he did he would like me again. Why wont he hang out with me I know he still likes me. How can i get him to hang out with me and what could we do if we do end up hanging out. Something fun thats not boring at all!
PLEASE HELP!?

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Doesn't want a girlfriend!


Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 12:21 am

I have been hooking up with this guy now for over 6 months. We kiss and hold hands and stuff everytime we see each other but we have never done anything more than that because when I try he says he "doesn't want to". He also says he doesn't want a girlfriend and that is why we are not going out but he never hooks up with other girls and has told me he loves me? He is obviously not using me for sex because we never do it and isn't seeing other people so I am really confused and any answer would be really appreciated! thanks in advance

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Not into HIM


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 11:38 pm

This might be long...22, F: I've been going out (sort of) with this guy for a couple months now. I knew I wasn't all that interested in him, and saw things in him that I could not deal with long term-- he's too self-conscious, gets excited too easily, too caught up in his own opinion of things..etc. To sum it up, I realized he's not my type. I'm not high maintenence, but there were things I have felt uneasy about early on, and now I don't even have interest in him. I'm also moving back home after I graduate, which is in a month and half. I told him about it. Right now, I'm super busy with my classes- he called me 3 times in one day while I was in the library, and asked to go hang out, even when he knows I have no life right now and don't ha...

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kiss from a friend.


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 11:35 pm

I really want to make out with this guy named Josh. But hes kinda shy, and hes my friend. I dont know how to do this. How do I make him want to make out with me? And if so, how do I get him alone (at school), and how do I make him kiss me?

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PLZ helppp!!


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 11:29 pm

Hey guys I really need help about this!!!Well theres this guy(who turns to be my best friend)that im MADLY in love with.But he has a gf(...)so I figured the best thing to do is to move on on and let go...but I dont know how!!!plz HELP..i really need to shut my feelings for him because it hurts to watch him being in love with some1 else while im sitting here waiting on him.so please tell me what to do so i can 4get about him.i really have to.i cant stop thinking about him and it makes me cry.i cry almost every nights...please tell me what to do but,please dont tell me to do activities because theres not much to do where I live.just tell me what I should do toward him and stuff!
im waiting for your help.
thanx in advance


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oneyear.


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 11:14 pm

well, me and my boyfriend's one year will be coming up very shortly. i really need suggestions on what to get him. I've alreay made him a scrap book-so a no on that. he likes rock music, his main thing is music. no, we're not going to have sex. i'm waiting until i'm married. [he know's this] so, any suggestions on what to get him or what we could do? please answer this. i really want to make it special for the both of us.

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BIG SERIOUS MAJOR LOVE PROBLEM.


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 10:04 pm

This is the thing, my bestfriend just got dumped by this kid lets call him Bob . Bob and I went out last year for a long time , but we ended up breaking up beacuse of my bestfriend ... she really liked him and left me outof everything . So basicly we broke up and bob went out with my best friend !! So anyway .. a month after bob dumped my best friend he wanted to go on a date with me. I asked my bestifrned if it was okay and she was lik yeahh of course. I just got home from my dad and she found out we ksised and now my bestfriend hates me. am i the bad guy ?

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Kiss


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 10:01 pm

how can you learn to kiss or how do you know if you know how to kiss

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Confused about 2 Guys?


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 9:33 pm

Okay so I dated a guy for a year. We broke up went on a break for 5monthes. Because he wanted to go to the club and expierence stuff that he wouldnt normally be able to do with a girlfriend. Well I have been with this other guy for 2monthes an everything has been perfect like we are best friends not dating or anything. But I do think he is special because he is the first guy I can actually hangout with an he is the only person I give the chance to hangout with me since my bf of one year and I went on our BREAK. But its not like LOVE like what me an the guy of one year had. So I dont know what to do. Should I give him another chance? I kinda think that if I give him another chance than I dont him going to the club. I am 17 he is 19. So I can...

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party with crush


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 9:10 pm

ok im about to go to a b-day party and my crush is gonna be there. what should i do? i want to let him know i like him but not tell him. like how can i flirt with him? hes my best friend and according to my instincts he likes me back. everyone thinks its so obvious that we like eachother but he hasnt said he does. so how can i let him knoe im interested? its gonna be super fun with like tons of ppl and i just want tonight to go well since i never get to hang out with him outside of school. who knoes maybe even a kiss may happen! ahh cant wait help please. anyhting works! just please hurry befor i leave haha. im 14/f by the way.

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Decoding IMs


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 8:46 pm

I'm trying to figure out if a guy likes me. He's giving me mixed messages, and sometimes he sounds interested, sometimes he's not. I thought this part of our conversation was very weird. Let's call him "Bob."

MeTheGirl says:
My sister said I'm a loser and a dork because I'm single.
HimTheGuy says:
tell her u have a boyfriend <3
MeTheGirl says:
Haha, and exactly who is that?
HimTheGuy says:
<3
MeTheGirl says:
<3
HimTheGuy says:
is she still there?
MeTheGirl says:
Yeah, why?
HimTheGuy says:
xD just want to know
now tell her xD
MeTheGirl says:
Haha okay....X]
MeTheGirl says:
...

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HELP!


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 8:17 pm

okay..me and my ex boyfriend who were together for 3 years..broke up because of the distance..he has a new girlfriend now who he's been with about 2 months or less and he calls me all the time..like 7 times a day about just to talk..his current girlfriend doesn't want me talking to him at all but he doesn't care what she says because he wants to keep talking to me and to stay friends with me and he says he still loves me and cares for me and that we'd be together if it wern't for the distance..because he lives about an hour or so away from where i live but when we were together we were together all the time..but we ended up breaking in January..but i dunno what to do..i still love him..i just dont know..he's confusing because sometimes he h...

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Making out


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:16 pm

ok well I'm 13 and I had never really french kissed anyone before last night. I was completely honest with my boyfriend and told him that I wanted to so we frenched. he knew I had no idea what I was doing and I still don't! He said that was pretty good for my first time! But I don't know what I am doing! what the heck and I soposed to do with my tongue? please help!!!


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kissing


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 6:55 pm

how can you make him become a better kisser without hurting his feelings? seriously this kidis really bad at it yet hes completly perfect at everything else. help!

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Ineed help talking to a boy i like!!!


Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 6:27 pm

Well I like this boy named Robert and it is hard for me to talk to him well all of the boy i like!!!! can anyone help me?

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