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HELP!
okay..me and my ex boyfriend who were together for 3 years..broke up because of the distance..he has a new girlfriend now who he's been with about 2 months or less and he calls me all the time..like 7 times a day about just to talk..his current girlfriend doesn't want me talking to him at all but he doesn't care what she says because he wants to keep talking to me and to stay friends with me and he says he still loves me and cares for me and that we'd be together if it wern't for the distance..because he lives about an hour or so away from where i live but when we were together we were together all the time..but we ended up breaking in January..but i dunno what to do..i still love him..i just dont know..he's confusing because sometimes he has his days where he says i don't love you i'm with her i really love her..but idk..what do you think??? please give advice..or at least what you think this all means or something.
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He's not over you, but then again, he doesn't know what the hell he wants. He'll tell you he loves you, and then some days he'll say that he loves her & not you. So which is it? You've gotta tell this guy to make up his mind. It's either you or her, and there is no both. If he still wants to be friends with you, cool but not to lead you on & think you've still got hope if they decide to break up. And if he doesn't wanna be friends, then cool with that too but not to call you.
So you really need to talk to him and see what the hell is help because he can't keep doing this to you. It gets confusing, and you can't keep catering to who he's in love with each week, right?
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Well, firstly, he doesn;t seem like he is over you, because calling you everyday and saying he doesn't care about what she thinks is a very obvious that he isn't over you! :P
And secondly, you may like him alot but still, try get over him. Besides the fact, you like him and the distance, he has a girlfriend!!! And he should learn to be faithgul, because he would be hurting her, and picture yourself in her shoes... not too pleasant!
So make it obvious to him that you don't want him and you don't want any trouble with his girlfriend and stuff!
When he calls, try and avoid them... Don't answer or answer and tell him that you don't want anything but distant friends, because you guys ARE distant! So get over him, and MOVE ON!!!
There are many guys out there... YOU WILL FIND THEM!!!
Thankyou,
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ii think he still likes you but the part where he sasys i dnt love you i really love her iit sounds like he dosnt want you to know that he loves you so much adn him claling you everyday does kiinda prove he does and if he dosnt care what she says if he really loved her he would care bout what she says ii thiink he does like you =]
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