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first breakup..
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 9:02 am
i just ended a three month relationship with my boyfriend..it was mutual. but it still hurts a lot. just the thought of me being sad makes me sad about it. and everytime i talk to one of my friends about it, they tell me something else about my relationship with him that makes it ten times worse.
what can i do to get over this quicker?
i'm sick of crying.
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How to gain trust
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 8:16 am
So I met this girl about a month ago online and I went to visit her at her work. We have been talking everyday for about a month now and have grown really close. We really want to hang out but there is just one problem. She is 17 and I just turned 23. She lives with her grandparents and they make sure they know everywhere she is but I just really wanna prove that I am looking for a relationship and not sex. Anyone have any idea how to start this to prove to them that I will take care of her?
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how do i tell him??? sorry this is long
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 5:24 am
Well I am kinda seeing someone long distance ( havent really made it offical) but it has been iffy since he hasnt come to my town yet.( we live 2 hrs apartWell Last week I was mentioned online to everyone what I wanted to go out on the lake for memorial Day and whoever wanted to come was invited. I was shocked hearing from him saying that he might come up for it since he was going to only be an hour away that day. I was not going to get my hopes up till that day just in case there was any cancellations on his part. Well He showed up at the right time and went creek hopping ( hiking along the creek) all day. I found it quite funny because he had never been there but was up to going on up ahead to make the trail and rocks were safe enough f...
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three months
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 1:13 am
15/m
alrighty so here's the deal
my girlfriend and i will have been together for three months next saturday, which is kind of a big deal for us, and i really want to do something that she'll remember for a long time. also, she's leaving the next day to go to duke for three weeks, so i want to do something fun but nothing too expensive. .
thing is, i have no idea what that thing should be.
i'm not sure if i should get her something either. i'd already planned on writing her somewhat of a love letter type thing, but i don't know if i should get her anything else. i'm kinda low on cash, too. . .
thanks for any and all help
peace out
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Does she like my boyfriend?
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 12:45 am
ok this girl just asked my boyfriend to go to a water park with her and some other people. she knows that we've been going out all year, and i know her a little bit, but she didnt invite me. at first i thought she was just inviting him cuz shes friends with him, but my mom said that her inviting him like that, without me, means she likes him. do you think thats true? i would never invite someone else's boyfriend to do something like that, so its kind of weird to me. should i be worried?
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multiple crushes
Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 12:29 am
kk
15/m
i have trouble talking to girls and i'm having friends over friday, and i know this may be a bit odd but i have about 4 crushes right now, at least 1 of which will be at a gathering i'm having friday sooo...yea my questions are...:
1) any advice on talking to girls? i always get nervous and end up saying something stupid...
2) any advice on making a move? it is rather possible i might be able to do so...
thanks a lot dudes and dudettes
McC
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qift required!
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 11:52 pm
ok my boyfriends and mine's 1 year is coming up and i dont know what to get him. i dont have super amount of money, and i seriously dont know what to get him. dont say make it special by geting him something he likes. i know what he likes but like im really bad with gift ideas. if you could just make me a big list. thanks. :)
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Hello
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 11:00 pm
Theres this girl that I met on myspace. We match we have the same passion, shes for god I am too. And I try to call her 3 nights ago she never return my call. I left a messege I know she got it. So what should I do I really like her and shes in my city I dont have to travel to meet her.
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Very very shy/awkward boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 10:33 pm
I'm 15/f, he's 15/m
I've had a crush on this boy for months, and we are in the same group of friends. This year we became really good friends and he isn't shy with us at all, he's really funny. But he has always been kind of shy in terms of girls until earlier this year when he went out with one of my good girlfriends - bad experience for EVERYONE. I was really mad at her because she knew I liked him, and she ended up fighting with him the whole like week it lasted anyway. But that's over now...
So last week with a lot of convincing from his best friend, who I am also friends with, this boy finally asked me out (online-yes he is very shy). I REALLY like him. It hasn't been too awkward for me and we have hung out a lot but I th...
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bad kisser
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:20 pm
my boyfriend's a really bad kisser, but a wonderful guy. is there any way i can suggest for him to change his technique without completely offending him?
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threesome with my best friend and bf
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:06 pm
Ok my boyfriend and i are ready 2 have sex and neither of us are virgins but instead of plain sex he wants 2 have a threesome at first i was okay with it but then he went and asked my best friend if she wanted 2 be the third person and she said yes and i have always known that she had a crush on him but i never cared until now and i dont know if i should Go through with it now i have no problem with the threesome but having my bff in it i dont know and i dont know if this is her way of getting 2 have sex or give head 2 him but i just dont think i should Go through with it now can somebody pleez give me advice and thanks in advance(f/16)
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breakup..im so sad
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 8:33 pm
15 f
ok so me and my bf were so great. everything was perfect. we were together for 9 months. so suddently he started being mean to me. like calling me corney or just like wheneevr i asked him something he wouldnt want to tell me. like if i would ask him what are you doing? he would say "something". that would just get annoying. so i was really depressed and i asked him if he wanted a break and he sed no. and i sed i do. and he said ok. and then he put a smily face. this was all through aim. why would he put a smily?. and i asked him why he put a smily and he sed idk. i told him it was jsut a break for a while and he sed ok as long as its for a while. so my best friend has classes with him and she asked him if he wanted to...
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flirty boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 8:25 pm
my boyfriend flirts with other girls a lot. sometimes he does it in person, but mostly over myspace. he even flirts with girls who have bf's, saying stuff like "damn your boyfriend's lucky!" im really kind of offended and hurt by this because im jealous, and sometimes it makes me rethink my relationship with him... i dont know if it means hes not happy with me or doesnt take me seriously, or if he just wants to get a reaction out of these girls..likes them, etc. :[ i guess what im asking is, how can i talk to him about it or explain how i feel about the whole thing?
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is she trying to steal my bf?
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 8:09 pm
i have this new friend "mary" that ive just started hanging out with. she has a bf, but the other day she told one of her friends that she likes MY bf, and that she wished she'd met him before he started going out with me. so that girl told my bf about it, and my bf told me. (he said don't worry, he doesn't like her). but now, whenever mary invites me to do stuff, she says "why don't you bring your bf?" and my bf is like "why dont you hang out with mary more?" so i asked mary if it was true that she likes my bf, and she said "nooo! i have a bf!" i was really starting to like this girl, but now im wondering, is she just being my friend so she can get to my bf?
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Cheating
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 7:00 pm
does anyone know a song about a guy who breas up with his girlfriend who is madly in love with him because her best friend spread a rumour that she was going out with someone else? please post it if u do know cause that just happened to me
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:(
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:58 pm
so theres this boy.
and ive liked him since the begging of the school year.
theres 8 school days of school left.
and everyone says they think he likes me.
so basically, what should i do to get him to go out with me?
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boysboysboys!
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:39 pm
okeyyyy. so i have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends, but he just had his one year anniversary with his girlfriend. and i know they're serious and whatnot, but he still said that if things went badly with them, he'd deffinitely go out with me. and that made me really happy, and i reallyreally like him. i have so much fun when i'm with him. and basically, he had me at hello.
and there's this other boy, single, cute, i have fun with him, starttttting to like him, but he's not like the other guy. i know i'd have a better chance with this guy, but still, i'm not sure what i should do.
i'm not sure if i should wait around for the guy who i really really like.
or take my chances with the other guy?
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Jealous Boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:35 pm
i have a weird problem: my boyfriend is jealous of me. for example, i'm in honors classes and get really good grades, and hes always like "you're so smart and im so stupid!". if i win an award or accomplish something, he never says congratulations or good job, he just pouts. or if i do something with my girlfriends, he acts all left out, even tho its just girls. also, he spent all year convincing me to try out for cheerleading, and then when i made it, i got a lot of attention, and that made him mad. the weird thing is, he's really funny and popular and athletic and lots of girls like him, so it doesnt seem like he'd have any reason to be jealous of me. i love him so much but this is putting a real strain on our relationship! why does he act that way??
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sperm
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:25 pm
Can you get pregnant from swallowing sperm???
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my boyfriend seems lik` he doesnt trust me
Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 6:07 pm
14/f
my friend had called me today and told me that my boyfriend asked her a question.. and she said not to tell him... because i wasnt supposed to know about it, he asked her how many boyfriends have i had.. and i told her to ask him why does he wanna know, and he said "you told her didnt you." and i told her to say no. and then he said "i heard differently" and she asked him who was telling him this stuff, and he said "im not tellin` you." and the thing is i`m so mad about it.. because i told her to tell him i mainly had 4 because the other 3 we acted like we were friends. and then she said "what? do you not trust her?" and he said "i do trust her, im js makin` sure." ..... ...
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