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threesome with my best friend and bf


Question Posted Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:06 pm

Ok my boyfriend and i are ready 2 have sex and neither of us are virgins but instead of plain sex he wants 2 have a threesome at first i was okay with it but then he went and asked my best friend if she wanted 2 be the third person and she said yes and i have always known that she had a crush on him but i never cared until now and i dont know if i should Go through with it now i have no problem with the threesome but having my bff in it i dont know and i dont know if this is her way of getting 2 have sex or give head 2 him but i just dont think i should Go through with it now can somebody pleez give me advice and thanks in advance(f/16)

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xFAMOUSxooo answered Thursday May 31 2007, 5:26 pm:
Go through with whatever you feel.
It would be weird, and you could loose your boyfriend from this.
If you dont want to do it, tell your boyfriend and if he really cared about you he would say okay.

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caramella answered Thursday May 31 2007, 10:05 am:
omg!!what the hell!!i consider that cheating sweety!omg wow you know,him asking your BEST freind to be in it just gives him the right to have sex with her ALONE when the threesome is over.Youd agree for her to be in it three way before so why wouldnt they do it by themselves?Dont you feel jealous at all or love this guy?If you did,the idea of a threesome would be outta the question.And your freind dont seem so honest either,i would NEVER NEVER NEVER do anything with a bestfreinds guy!!anywayz i think that both of them have something between eachothere or eles why would he randomly come up and ask her for a threesome??

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cHaSsi3x answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 11:17 pm:
don't do anything you would feel awkward doing. i wouldn't have a 3 some with my boyfriend AND best friend. i would personally feel more comfortable if the other girl was someone i really didn't know all too well. you don't want to ruin your relationship with both of them, because them having the potential to have sex when she has a crush on him may start a fling between the two. idk, just don't do anything you don't wanna do! good luck.

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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:46 pm:
threesomes usually end up ruining happy couples... really. i've heard of it happening and i just read it in glamour the other day. my advice - don't do it. it will be weird. talk to your bf about it... if he doesn't understand, suggest that HIS best friend joins you.. <3

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illegalxtaste answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:20 pm:
i think that would be really awkward having a threesome with your boyfriend and bestfriend. If you think she might like him definately dooont do a threesome with her in it. yoou should tell your boyfriend that you dont want to do it especially with your bff in it

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rebelchick answered Wednesday May 30 2007, 9:20 pm:
Don't do something that doesn't feel right. And deff don't do it if you think that your best friend might have a crush on him. Follow your heart on this one. I think you will find the right answer if you do.

Hope I helped. =)

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