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cheated on
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 11:37 pm
17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring back.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends?
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might be confusing but i need major help
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 10:05 pm
16/f
Okay there is this boy, of course. He has been my friend for a while now but lately he is really flirty with me and stuff and everyone sees it so i think he might have feelings for me. I'm kinda staring to ger feelings forhim to, but then today i find out that my friend likes him. She doesnt know i know and she doesnt know that i might have feelings for him. I really wanna take it further but i dont wanna hurt my friends feelings since now i know that she has liked him for a while. what should i do?
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what do guys look for?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 9:49 pm
this is a stupid question.. but what do guys look for in a girl? do they like hearing what all the girl has done or not? how do they want you to act around them?
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He's so amazing <33
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 8:40 pm
My best friend Carrie introduced me to this guy named Ben and we started texting and eventually he asked me out. I couldn't be happier with him! But I haven't exactly met him in person yet and I'm kinda nervous about it. Of course I want to meet the guy that I like so much but I'm scared that he won't like me or won't think I'm skinny enough. If Ben and me do break up because he doesn't like me, should I stay friends with him or not? I wouldn't want to lose his friendship but then again, I don't know if I would want to be friends with someone who dumped me because I wasn't skinny enough. Please help me! Much appreciation!
<3 Chelsea
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i cant tell!
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 8:11 pm
alright ive known this guy for about a year. and it is like we were made for each other right. but one problem, he has a gf. but the other night he told me he wasnt in love with her, and that hes in love with someone else. what i wanna do is play hard to get, because if i am the one hes talking about, i dont want to sound to desperate. i want him to want me, more than i want him. can anyone help?
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i really LOVE him PLEASE HELP !!!
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 8:00 pm
ok im sorry but this is kinda long but i really need alot of advice...i met this guy and we went out for like alomost 6 months like i really like him alot his so sweet and caring and his just pefect like he has it all...and druing our relationship i was playin truth and dare wit my friends and got dared to kiss one of my x-b.fs and i felt so guilty because i never cheated on anyone ..so i told him..he was so upset and i thought he got over it becuase its been 3 months since than ....so then it was all good the relationship was going great and untill i found my best friend is moving and sooo i havent talked to him becuase i said my friends movin and i want some time alone wit her so he offcourse understood and didnt call me so i finally wan...
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rebounding?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 6:06 pm
okay well you probably hear this type of question a lot..
but anyways about a week ago me and my boyfriend broke up and we were going out for about half a year and i really loved him a lot, but i found out he cheated on me with my cousin, it wasnt like a big deal to me though but my cousin made up some stuff and said i was sneaking around with this other guy when i truthfully wasnt she just said that to him so he would brake up with me so she could have him, we wernt going to brake up when i found out he cheated on me, we toked it over and they only kissed so it didnt bother me really, but my cousin lives right down the road from him and she got him to brake up with me and go out with her. its only been a week since we broke...
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I miss him
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 5:50 pm
I've recently went into a relationship not long ago. I've met this really wonderful guy and he's really a very nice person.
He goes to the same school as me but the sad thing is, our timetables are very different, and we can only meet up at most once a week. Don't tell me to meet him on weekends cos both of us will be too busy catching up on our homework.
I keep thinking and missing him when he's not around me. And it's getting bad because I'm missing sleep over him. Today I actually cried on the phone when I talked to him because I really miss him so much. He told me that I shouldn't tire myself like that. And that it's not healthy for me to go on this way. He told me that I should focus on my work when I hav...
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Movies tomorrow.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 5:10 pm
Tomorrow, im going to the movies with my friend amanda and casey, and theres some fight going on, but im not going just for that, im going to see a bunch of people, like 30 people that im friends with are going to be there. 1/2 of them are guys that wanna hook up with me, like seriously, its gross.
I like one guy, sean, were ex's, he wants to go, but hes not sure if he can get a ride. I'd hook up with him in a second, i love him.
and dillon i like too, he cant go becuase its his brothers birthday.
then theres alex, were ex's, he is like "i wanna hook up so bad". but i dont want too! i feel horribal, we were an on and off relationship. i dont know what to do! i love sean, alot, and i l...
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want you
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 4:41 pm
how do you get a guy to want you more? like the expression always leaving them wanting more.
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idk how to tell him
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 4:07 pm
15/f
my bf (15/m) and i have been going out almost 3 months and today we were making out and i wasnt totally sure if it was just an accident but he had his hand on my chest... i thought maybe it wasnt intentional cause he would move it to my shoulder after a few seconds but then later im pretty sure it was intentional. weve already talked about this and he said that it wasnt something he wanted and he wouldnt do that to me. so im confused. i dont think im ready for that, but i dont know how to ask him if, first of all, he was intending it, and also if he could wait because im not ready. how do i bring it up? i mean i would feel weird if i was just like hey were you trying to feel me up or what? i need a subtler way to say it or i wont be able to say anything at all. thanks
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i REALLY need help.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 2:34 pm
okay, so theres this boy. and hes 5/4 years older then me. and everyone hated him, so i eased off with talking to him. and he was so sweet to me, and my bestfriend told me she wouldnt be my friend if i dated him. and all this stuff, so i stopped acting like a girlfriend type. and he was so heartbroken.
and now he has a new girl, and all i want is for that to be me. and please, tell me how to show him i do care about him.
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What can we do?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 2:03 pm
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out now for a few days he came over the other day when he asked me out and we ended up just hanging out with my family but i guess he thought it was fun. But he's gonna be comming over again this monday and i dont want it to be boring yet i dont know what we could do. i live in a small town with well nothing to do and we could hang at the park or something to get away from my family but its gonna be really hot soo idk What are some things we could do? we dont get to hang out much because he lives 40 minutes away and i cant drive and he has work that we kinda ruins times we can hang out and school starts for me this comming wednesday which is gonna make things even harder so i want to have fun thin...
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i made a huge mistake...
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 1:31 pm
have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl fro...
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i made a huge mistake...
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 1:02 pm
I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and prett...
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really nervous/scared
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 12:50 pm
kay well theres this girl that i was really close friends with and like now we're drifting apart kind of i dont know. but yeah. she just always seems to be one of the problems when a guy like breaks up with me or somehting like that. and now there is this guy that i've been hanging out with and like it was great cause i didnt tell her or anything cause i dont want her to get in the way or anything. but then she called me and told me he liked me and like now im just scared that when he gets back from mexico on wednesday that she'll like do something i dont know. im just scared.
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Akward.
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 11:43 am
Okay, well as a lot of kids now schools starting in like a week in a half ( for me) And I donno I had a great summer wicked memorable! Well I asked a question about this before, like I went on a road trip basicly, with my friend(kinda) and ex-boyfriend Eric and a couple other people. Well we kinda like forgot about our history and became really close again and I asked if I should ask him about *us*. Did.. and well that was a like a month ago and we kinda agreed on seeing where it took us. Well its been forever since Ive seen him and i think it'll be akward between us.. I think I still like him but I donnno what to do???
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what to wear. seriously help!
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 11:17 am
kay so like.. i really need some ideas on something to wear when im going on a date. like ive been on about 3 dates with this guy.. and like im running out of ideas on what to wear ahah. even though i have a ton of clothes im just like so confused. any ideas??
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which friend?
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 9:24 am
hey i'm Candace, and i'm 15.
my next door neighbor, matt, and i have been best friends since birth practically. He's my age. last summer he had feelings for me but i turned him down because he's like a brother to me.
His best guy friend, tim, and i have been talking& flirting on and off for about 2 years. we've liked each other off and on during this time but we never got the chance to take it further due to distance.
Now i hang out with my matt more then i have in the past couple months and tim is there. we both like eachother A LOT now but i dont know if it can work, because of matt. I feel that it may be awkward. do you think i should let Tim go, or go for it?
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first date....too shyy...ill rate everyone that helpss
Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 3:06 am
im goin on my first date with this guy i got to know online and im MAD NERVOUS....we only talked like a couple of times and hes really sweet and we know a bit bout eachother...my problem is im shy to the extreemist extent anyone can imagine...goin red when talkin to guys...i really need help cuz when i go on this date im nervous that i might not say anything or talk at all!i have an outstanding personality among my freinds but infront of this guy...ill totally mute...what do i do...what do i say to start convos...im so nervous what do i ask him...or talk bout:(((((((((((
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