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i really LOVE him PLEASE HELP !!!


Question Posted Thursday August 16 2007, 8:00 pm

ok im sorry but this is kinda long but i really need alot of advice...i met this guy and we went out for like alomost 6 months like i really like him alot his so sweet and caring and his just pefect like he has it all...and druing our relationship i was playin truth and dare wit my friends and got dared to kiss one of my x-b.fs and i felt so guilty because i never cheated on anyone ..so i told him..he was so upset and i thought he got over it becuase its been 3 months since than ....so then it was all good the relationship was going great and untill i found my best friend is moving and sooo i havent talked to him becuase i said my friends movin and i want some time alone wit her so he offcourse understood and didnt call me so i finally wanted to talk to him so i called him he seemd so diffrent so i told him that and we got into a fight but about something else like that his diffrent and everything between us is to and all of that i said to him .....so on line he posted a bulletin about me that i cheated wit my name is caps in front of everyone ofcuorse i was mad and was pissed off so i messeged him calling him a jerk and everything ...and asked him are we over and he said yes ( but another day he told my friend when we were already over that he kinda felt that i wanted to break up wit him but i wanted him to do it but i didnt )...i realized it was my fault cuz he said he broke up wit me to my friends becuase i cheated and that i said it was all changed between us...and now i said i wanna talk to him so we can talk it out but it all went wrong cuz i left that day and he didnt even come and i think he got a new g.f now but i no he still cares about me becuase he told that to my friend i dont no what to do please hurry !!!!!i really love him and i no he loves me to really we share so much .....and he said he still cares so please what should i do !!!/???



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DepthofHeart answered Friday August 17 2007, 12:26 am:
First off, calm down, hyperventilating accomplishes nothing. You need to talk to him, not call him, or message him. You need to apologize first, then you need to tell him how you really feel about everything that happened, and how you feel about him.

Exlain to him what happened at the party, and that you feel guilty about it. And that you knew it was stupid to kiss your ex, even if it was just T&D. Tell him that you didn't want to break up and that you still want to be with him...just tell him everything your feeling now.

Communication and honesty are the key to a good relationship. When you talk to him make sure to pick someplace secluded and quiet so you're not distracted and you have his full attention. When you kissed your ex, he probably lost his trust in you. So be prepared to have to earn it back. Guys consider crying blackmail...but use it if you have to. (JK)


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