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idk how to tell him
15/f
my bf (15/m) and i have been going out almost 3 months and today we were making out and i wasnt totally sure if it was just an accident but he had his hand on my chest... i thought maybe it wasnt intentional cause he would move it to my shoulder after a few seconds but then later im pretty sure it was intentional. weve already talked about this and he said that it wasnt something he wanted and he wouldnt do that to me. so im confused. i dont think im ready for that, but i dont know how to ask him if, first of all, he was intending it, and also if he could wait because im not ready. how do i bring it up? i mean i would feel weird if i was just like hey were you trying to feel me up or what? i need a subtler way to say it or i wont be able to say anything at all. thanks
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Honeslty, don't bring it up to him. Wait. Wait for him to actually start to do it again, and stop him. Pull away and just calmly say "I don't want to do that" or "I'm not ready for that yet". Anything along those lines. Don't kiddingly say "stop" or laugh because he'll think you're playing around. Look him in the eyes and he'll get the point. Let him know you need time and don't want to rush anything. If he respects you, he'll never do it again until you're okay with it. The only way to get things done, esp with boys, is to speak up and do it! =]
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