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first date....too shyy...ill rate everyone that helpss
im goin on my first date with this guy i got to know online and im MAD NERVOUS....we only talked like a couple of times and hes really sweet and we know a bit bout eachother...my problem is im shy to the extreemist extent anyone can imagine...goin red when talkin to guys...i really need help cuz when i go on this date im nervous that i might not say anything or talk at all!i have an outstanding personality among my freinds but infront of this guy...ill totally mute...what do i do...what do i say to start convos...im so nervous what do i ask him...or talk bout:(((((((((((
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Ok, take a deep breath! Good.
Now, you say that he is sweet even though you only talk to him a few times, so joke about it and say that you are super shy and if he sweet enough then he'll understand. After the date starts then you'll find that it is getting eaiser to talk to him without getting red. If you can't find anything to say then ask him to tell about himself.
Hope this helps and GOOD luck!
Let me know how it goes!
AlyssaBT4T
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just tell him online like before you see him that you'll be shy but if he keeps going out with you then you'll loosen up. I used to be like that, I'm getting better though but it still gets pretty bad sometimes. But yeah, just try and be comfortable but the best thing you can do is just tell him in advance.
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I'm the exactly same way. Even down to the meeting a guy online and going on my first date with him lol. There really isn't a way to get over being shy, because i've tired that a million times, but nothing works. What i did with that guy was before we went out, i told him online that im EXREMELY shy, and that i probably wont talk every much on the date until i hang out with him a couple times and get comfortable with him. He was totally cool about it. He started conversation and he didnt mind that i didnt talk very much. And then as i hung out with him more, i got more comfortable with him and actually talked and wasnt nervous at all.
good luck!=]
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