My best friend Carrie introduced me to this guy named Ben and we started texting and eventually he asked me out. I couldn't be happier with him! But I haven't exactly met him in person yet and I'm kinda nervous about it. Of course I want to meet the guy that I like so much but I'm scared that he won't like me or won't think I'm skinny enough. If Ben and me do break up because he doesn't like me, should I stay friends with him or not? I wouldn't want to lose his friendship but then again, I don't know if I would want to be friends with someone who dumped me because I wasn't skinny enough. Please help me! Much appreciation!
<3 Chelsea
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? angie91 answered Friday August 17 2007, 12:11 am: Hey!
you're thinking really far ahead, but sometimes thats an okay thing to do. Remember you havnt met him either, something could be different with him than you would expect. I think that you should just take everything slowly. If he does dump you, then that sucks, but that was a risk you took when you started going out with him. As far as whether or not to be friends with him later, I would let him control it. If he texts you then text him back, but if he doesnt do anything, then maybe thats the way he wants it to be.
Good luck, and I'm sure you're plenty skinny :P. If you're not then you're right, he's a jerk whos super superficial. Hope I helped gurl,
Love ya,
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xojessii answered Thursday August 16 2007, 10:42 pm: if he dumps you for not being skinny enough then hes a jerk. and you don't want to be friends with a jerk.
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