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It's awkward with the guy friend I like =/
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 2:21 pm
13/f
Okay, about 5 months ago I met this boy and from the minute I met him I fancied him. It slowly started to get a lot more serious and I can honestly say I love him, he's also become a very close friend.
Four months ago he started dating this girl, and he says he's in love with her, but it's a long distance relationship and recently they've been going through a bit of a rough patch and he told me he's not really sure what's going on with him and his girlfriend at the moment. But he still loves her.
Yesterday, on msn, after ages of him saying he needed to tell me something, he told me he likes me as more than a friend, but that no one else knows. I told him I felt the same but I wouldn't act on his bec...
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other people think im pretty but not boys
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 1:51 pm
I really am not trying to sound conceited and brag to everyone that i'm pretty, I have better things to do. But adults always say that i'm very pretty and that I have the body and face to be a model and everything. But boys just don't seem to notice me. Like if you looked like a model, wouldn't alot of guys like you? For example, [I DONT LIKE MY COUSIN BEFORE U READ THIS!], my aunt was like fixing my boy cousin's hair and was like "oh there now you look cute, i'd date you if I was your age" then she is like "jamie would date you, if she wasn't your cousin" [im jamie] He's like "HAHA yeah but I wouldn't date HER" Then another time at school this girl is like "you're really pretty" and a guy was sitting...
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boyfriends moving
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:52 pm
14/f
my boyfriends moving, we;ve been together more then a year. hes coming back for me in two years, he's leaving this saturday. i want to buy him something, but i REALLY need something good<3 help!? :[ im gon miss him so muchh
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is this normal?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 9:53 am
okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date...
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a sixth grader inlove with a seventh grader
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 8:51 am
There is this boy named David that I have known as a babe and longer. He is a year older than me and I really like him and is wonderin if he likes me too. Lats year a the end of the year on the last day I saw him talking ALOT to this girl and I'm kinda jealous. What do I do?
P.S this year he is goin to jr. high I'm in middle school.
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the other girl - should i be worried?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 4:46 am
ok so last fall my boyfriend started liking this other girl. he told her he was gonna break up with me, and they kissed. the next morning he called me crying and told me it was a huge mistake, and he didnt want to lose me, and blah blah blah. so i gave him another chance.
so for while he didnt talk to that girl. but they had a class together and after a while they started sitting together and became "good friends." and then i started hearing about how he was always flirting with her and stuff. so of course i talked to him about it, many times, and finally i told him if he wanted to stay with me, he couldnt talk to her anymore. and he promised not to.
so then we were at this end of school party, ...
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continue of : i am so confused
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 2:54 am
me
lately right after i told you about that party i went to and met that brother of my sisters room mate you sound jealous. and you don’t know why you were but to ask you this, what is going on between us? is something on your mind? what is bothering you? i did tell you how i felt and it is not right to play with my mind. you seem like you are not respecting how i feel and i don’t like it. just tell me what is going on! its time for me to move on and now it seems like you don’t want me to and why is that? you have no idea what i am going through, if you want to know then ask!
if u does care about our friendship then please don’t ignore this.
friends share!
lara
ok well my reply is this......
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bf drama with my parents
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 1:33 am
f 15
ive been dating my boyfriend for a year.
weve gone kinda far in bed... our pants have stayed on though. well i accidentally gave him a hicki and my parents freaked. i told them i had never kissed his neck before and i wanted to see what it was like... and it was an accident. *lie i know* i got in a ton of trouble. my mom started yelling and crying... but seriously im 15... she shouldnt really care about a hicki. my parents are thinking about making me break up with my boyfriend even though im completely in love with him. i just need help. :)
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Grossed out
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 1:00 am
Anyone have any tips on getting more ungrossed out with doing stuff with a guy that involves his penis? Cause its not like i dont want to do stuff with him, its just like..i dont like penises. i find them gross. so we'll dry hump and grab/touch each other but i want to do more but i dont like the thought of touching his bare penis. can someone tell me how to get over that? thanksss. ill rate high!
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Caught up on his ex?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:54 am
I really like this guy but he's so hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He has her on his top people on his myspace, he still text messages her, he's so nice to her and she treats him like shit that's why they broke up. Like if we talk shit to her he like apologies to her. He's like whipped by someone he's not even with they were only together for like 3 months. I like him a lot and he flirts with me but he's still hung up and I don't wanna be with someone who still talks to there ex girlfriend. What should I do?
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talking on the phone
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:53 am
when i talk to my friends on the phone
i can like be all like crazy and stuff
and we always think of stuff to talk about
like the most random stuff
but when i talk to a guy that i like
its like blah.
i dont even think of anything to talk about
and im shy
and me and this guy text alottt
and we live kinda far away and we might start a relationship
but its gonna hurt us alot if we do
becasue its my fault casue i like dont talk
and i hate it. im just really shy to guys i like
and he always gets mad at me cause i dont talk
so any suggestions what we can talk about
like i seriosuly need help with it
because we both like eachother alottttt!
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1 year but change of heart?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:52 am
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and recently we started hanging out with this guy. I am really getting to like him he's cute, nice, funny etc. I still love my boyfriend but i feel like I'm distancing myself from my boyfriend because of this guy. What should I do?
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is she true?
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:35 am
she cries and does things so sweet and fights to keep me but shes always so secretive.is she a true lover?
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Hitting on
Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:15 am
How do you "hit on" a guy?
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stupid boys.
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 10:47 pm
I WAS semi-involved with this guy, who has been a really good friend of mine since 7th grade (currently in 10th)he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i felt really bad about that bc shes my friend. but i thought he must be pretty serious, bc shes freaking gorgeous. so we talked for a while, and we started dating on Friday. then. the next day my best friend calls me and says that he was gunna break up with me.
wtf?
next thing i know, were not dating and he's into his ex again. i feel so freaking used. and. blah.
what do i do? he was one of my best friends and now i cant think of him like that anymore.
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Interested to hear what you think...
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 8:21 pm
So I'm a 19 year old guy, and to sum it up I've never been in a real relationship. I've had lots of opportunities to go out with girls and I've been asked out by about 5 so far. The problem is that I really want to be in a relationship and I'm very attracted towards women, but whenever things start going right with girls it's like I need to get out of it. And no, I'm not gay. I feel really confident in myself physically and mentally, I'm very involved at my university, and I have lots of friends both guys and girls. I don't have lots of experience with girls as far as in relationships, but I feel very confident when talking to them. Sometimes I plan to ask a girl out, but then I lose interest in her within a week or so. It's like I...
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Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 5:07 pm
I met this guy last weekend at a place where everyone in my town hang out. we hit it off really well and started dating a couple days later. everything was going really great but then i found out from a few friends i have in the grade above that he did ectasy oxy cotton ect. i definetley am not into drugs, i called him and told him i never wanted to see him ever again. he started crying and said i havent cried this much since my mom died of coursr i felt awful so i agreed to have him drive over to my house and we could talk i told him that i thought we rushed into going out and that i couldnt be with somebody who does drugs i want to be a dancer in high school and i cant be associated with drugs. he also told people that we were going to ha...
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omg, i'm lame.
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 4:20 pm
I'm 15.
and boyfriendless.
and it sucks.
so i was talking to my friend Amelia, and she says i don't flirt with guys enough. all of my friends are guys, I'm really feminine, but i have a lot of guy friends, and i tend to act... not flirty? i guess.
ugh, idk. i guess i'm asking, if theres anything i can do to to flirt more/ be more confident?
don't laugh, this is my first post.
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i miss him horribly.
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 4:06 pm
kay so this guy that i really like and have been hanging out with went to mexico. and like he comes back on wednesday but i really miss him. but also.. im REALLY like EXTREMELY scared that he wont like me when i get back. and im also scared that this one girl will get in the way. what should i do?? like am i just being paranoid or what? please help.
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crush on married woman
Posted Sunday August 19 2007, 3:45 pm
I have a huge crush on a woman that i work with we are both married but mine is on the rocks and i am not sure i want to try fixing it anymore.she is very friendly,flirty with me every time i see her i've felt this way for a couple of years but have not acted on it in any way.i have tried keeping distance from her but my feelings still haven't changed.should i tell her my feelings?My problems with my wife are mostly money related she won't quit spending beyond our means,I have tried getting help but she won't cooperate.last year I had to borrow a lot of money from her dad to pay off creditors i didn't even know i owed because she got credit cards in my name without my consent and wouldn't pay them back and they weregoing to garnish my wages...
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