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other people think im pretty but not boys


Question Posted Monday August 20 2007, 5:51 pm

I really am not trying to sound conceited and brag to everyone that i'm pretty, I have better things to do. But adults always say that i'm very pretty and that I have the body and face to be a model and everything. But boys just don't seem to notice me. Like if you looked like a model, wouldn't alot of guys like you? For example, [I DONT LIKE MY COUSIN BEFORE U READ THIS!], my aunt was like fixing my boy cousin's hair and was like "oh there now you look cute, i'd date you if I was your age" then she is like "jamie would date you, if she wasn't your cousin" [im jamie] He's like "HAHA yeah but I wouldn't date HER" Then another time at school this girl is like "you're really pretty" and a guy was sitting with her and he just laughed. Why don't guys think i'm hot? i'M confused! By the way, i'm going into 8th grade.

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chloekc answered Monday August 20 2007, 10:18 pm:
Guys don't really know what they're looking for in a girl when they're in 8th grade. However harsh it sounds towards them (i'm sorry if any of you are reading this, granted you're not all like this8-)) but guys at that age are only looking for a girl to do things with and experiment. They're not always looking for the 'pretty' girls, but usually the easy girls. The reason adults say you're pretty is because they're looking at you through their eyes, mature eyes. I used to get so many complements off older people (18 and up) because i looked more mature and developed than what guys my age where looking for (short skirts and skinny girls) and i had basically no guys what so EVER after me! Now that i'm in the 'older teen' group i get more looks and complements off guys my own age because they've grown up and actually want a normal girlfriend (as they care more about us now:|). To be honest i wouldn't worry about boyfriends until you're older, just go with the flow. Trust me when i say girls change.. The really pretty girls now probably wont be so pretty in the future!

But i have to say on the other hand [After i've offended half the male population (sorry:P)] that girls see some other girls as pretty when guys don't see the same. To us we see the blonde, skinny girl as 'perfect' but a lot of the guys actually go 'she really isn't that great you know' after you spend hours telling them how much prettier she is than you are!

I seemed to have offended everyone here:| But i'm not trying too. I'm sure you are extremely pretty, but i wouldn't get to caught up in people's positive comments or you'll get all annoyed on why no-one YOU like is saying the same. It's all on personal taste. We're all pretty to someone, you just have to find them.
You have so much time, and you're going to changed in shape and size and looks so much in the next few years, even if you don't notice it yourself. I wouldn't worry so much about it, the older you get the more interest guys will show to you, they just don't know what they're look for.

Anyway i say all this, but you never know those guys were probably laughing because they actually find you really pretty!!

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sunnyville answered Monday August 20 2007, 10:09 pm:
Some guys are like really shy,don't want to express their feelings for reasons such as fear of rejection or of getting hurt again that is if they had gone through pain in their last relationship or just want the girl to make the move on them.Don't get frustrated,there are guys who can act like jerks just ignore them,think about it why would a girl tell you that if it wasn't true,plus it's not a girl you know,also there can be males who don't seek for an oppurtunity but, just want an adventure,if they don't see that in a girl they go for another who will give him that pleasure.If you know you're hot then you will most likely get a boyfriend soon,look at the bright side you are very young,you will have a lot of time to enjoy your youth,and be confident in your own skin if you know what I mean.

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ammo answered Monday August 20 2007, 8:39 pm:
Coz guys are stupid... throw rocks at them.


Actually no, don't do that you might poke an eye out then there'll be hell to pay gettin arrested, warnings, hassle from their parents.... not worth all that. Just ignore them instead and be happy with how you are. If these immature brats don't see how beautiful you are what's it matter as long as you see it and those close to you see it. :]

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XSugarPieX77 answered Monday August 20 2007, 8:24 pm:
Guys your age are stupid and mature.Stop thinking about what others think of you, and take a look at yourself. Wow, that sounds really harsh, totally not meant to. lol. Just, dont focus on what other people tell you, and what people dont. Their will be guys out their that think your pretty, no worries. And your cousin? He was prob just being a jerk. lol. Hope I helped!

-Bri

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