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talking on the phone


Question Posted Monday August 20 2007, 12:53 am

when i talk to my friends on the phone
i can like be all like crazy and stuff
and we always think of stuff to talk about
like the most random stuff
but when i talk to a guy that i like
its like blah.
i dont even think of anything to talk about
and im shy
and me and this guy text alottt
and we live kinda far away and we might start a relationship
but its gonna hurt us alot if we do
becasue its my fault casue i like dont talk
and i hate it. im just really shy to guys i like
and he always gets mad at me cause i dont talk
so any suggestions what we can talk about
like i seriosuly need help with it
because we both like eachother alottttt!


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CaileyxCalamity answered Monday August 20 2007, 12:43 pm:
make a list of subjects to talk about if you hit a blank,
you can also ask about his day, and your day, and maybe about what your plans are for tommarow
and mayb school?

hope i helped =]

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LM answered Monday August 20 2007, 11:42 am:
Talk about your day. You always find things to talk about with your other friends- do the same with him!

Ask him a completely random question out of the blue, like "If you were stuck on a desert island and had to eat one food for all eternity, what would you choose?". Try getting The Book of Questions- I was on the phone for three hours discussing it.
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If the conversation stops for awhile & it's getting awkward, either start talking again or ask what he's up to- he may be doing something that you can talk about. Or say "Sheesh, don't us all talk at once now..." or "Don't talk so fast I can't hear ya!" Good luck =]


-LM
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Endivisual answered Monday August 20 2007, 10:23 am:
talking online with someone you like helps a lot. you can be as random you want but you don't wanna be too random.. just so they don't think you're annoying.

to talk on the phone, maybe talk about your day or how their day was. talk out your feelings if something's wrong.. maybe suggest meeting up some day since you guys live far away from eachother.

it's really up to you to take it as far as it can get. he can't blame you for not talking, lot of girls are like that. don't stress too much... just let him understand.

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