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Q: hey. well, i'm 14/f. well, i'm just gonna cut to the chase. i suck at talking to boys. i've just started high school, and i always see all these girls talking to guys and giving them hugs and stuff, but i'm just too shy and not good at talking to them. i know their just other people, but somehow i find that when i get around guys i tend to be mean and rebelious (sp). i'm not lesbian or bi or anything, but idk. there was this one guy last year in like all of my classes and i really liked him, and i mean a lot, and i could always talk to him pretty well, but he's not in any of my classes this year, and he has a gf, and i still like him. but idk. i just need some HELP! thanks!
it seems like you had a good conection with this guy.
I think that after you start to talk to a guy and get to know him you will be fine,
make sure not to be mean to a guy, because then he will think that you dont like him
joking around and stuff is fine though.
you just need to practice =]

Q: Is it normal that my boyfriend wants distance or space from me more often? We've been together for 9 1/2 months. But we used to hang out almost everyday and now he hardly wants to talk to me on the phone or be with me. I don't know what's going on or if it's normal. Lately he's rather wanting to play video games then to talk to me. What should I do?
this is normal, dont take it personally, he prob. just needs a little alone time.
However, if it lasts for more then a week, then maybe you should ask him if everything is alright or if there is something he would like to talk about

Q: Hi! Ok, this boy and i have been friend for a year and we're like best friends. We have liked each other off and on for the last year (by the way were teenagers so it's not serious!) We have both had relationships though so nothing ever happened. Then I dumped my summer boyfriend in the middle/end of June(short relationship) and in earl July he asked me to his Grandparents 50th anniversary party. He had already told me he liked me and stuff but I wasn't sure if i did) We went and while we were there we walked around and sat and talked and stuff and he put a bunch of moves on me. I didn't like it and felt really uncomfortable because for some reason I didn't like him! All of the sudden when he liked me I didn't! He asked me out but I said I will think about it. Then we decided not too. The thing is EVERYONE thinks we're the perfect couple! We went on a mission trip and everyone decided (and started planning!) our wedding because apparently we're getting married! Just a joke though, but even his MOM said we are "a match made in heaven". We are both Japanese and are really like each other. We are both religious too and he is just like me which practically no one else is. So we really connect! His bff and older brother keep pressuring me to go out with him now. I know we will some time, but I don't think right now is the right time. When we finally wants to start a relationship I DON'T! It is so weird but i can't like him any more than a friend! I don't know what to do! I want to try it out but i really want to start this school year single! Please help me!!! I hate the pressure and want to try it out but I don't know if it's the right time! And i don't think I like him much more than really good friends! Thanx!!!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥
expain to him that you care about him alot, but your just not ready for a relationship right now, but deffinitly in the future. if he really cared about you hed understand

hope i helped =]

Q: its kinda oldish, but i need to know the name of it

i barly know it but it has lines like these....

if i just layed here, would you lay here with me and just forget the world.

srry but thats all i know.
thanxxx
xox
chasing cars- snow patrol

Q: Does anyone one know if you can whiten your veneers? If so how?
(I am talking about veneers on your teeth)
brushing your teeth with baking soda makes a big difference and makes them very clean =]

Q: can yall send me some quotes/lyrics about missing somebody?
or not seeing that certain somebody in awhile?

thanks!
uhmm the lyrics to
i miss you- by blink 182
when your gone-avril lavigne
my heart is the worst kind of weapon- fall out boy


hope i helped =]




Q: So, Lately I got a few pimples on my fore-head, I usually dont get them but yes, Know I am using green tea oil but they dont seem to be going away, Is there any way to get them away with house-hold stuff:P Im not going shopping for a while.
Annndd
If I pop them should they be going soon?
Also, I heard its bad to use tooth-passte, True?
dont pop them untill there white heads,
lol unfortunantly tooth paste dosnt work
ive found that rubbing alchohol makes the pimples shrink very very fast, though it may sting at first.

Q: My friend and I are going to a regina spektor concert, but my dad had to buy 4 tickets cause it was cheaper or something like that idk. anyways, not a lot of people listen to regina spektor I know like 2 other people that do, but I'm not that good of friends that I can say hey want to go to a concert with me? cause it'd be so weird. What should I doo??
ask! it would be a good time to become friends with her, however maybe you should hang out with he before you go to the concert

Q: Is there anywhere I could download or might have on my computer that you can write the title for a CD on? I'm saving papers incase my computer crashes, and I want the names on them, besides just writing them. Thanks.
if you have word perfect, then you can go into projects and it lets you make a cd cover

Q: Alrighty does anybody know of a really good mascara that gives you long, full lashes? I've tried a few expensive ones and many cheaper ones and I just can't seem to find one that makes your lashes both long and full. So, please and suggestions, perhaps links, would be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much!
i have this mascara i think its by mabeline and it has two sides, one is white and the other is black, the white side helps make your eyelashes longer and the black side makes them fuller, it works really good

hope i helped=]

Q: Okay the reason why people really hate school is because of the people. It's never the work and of course school is a constant thing that seems like it's never going to end at all!!! Anyways I'm 13 and I'm in 8th grade. Can't wait to get the hell outta there. Anyways back to me. My ex friend as I call her. Well she came up to me today and told me that all these guys that she knew said I looked better on myspace then in real life. I personally think I look better in real life than in pictures. but I don't see how those guys can judge my looks when I haven't seen them in almost 3 years. I was 11 the last time I saw the guys she's talking about. I don't even remember what they look like. Anyways I think my friend is trying to piss me off because when I did meet those guys they said they wanted me to stay with them because they said I was waaaay hotter than my friend. And this made her really mad and she didnt talk to me for days. But that was 3 years ago. My question is though is my friend jealous or did those guys really mean that??? People dont say I'm beautiful or anything but they say I'm pretty and I don't think I'm thaaat ugly.
well im sorry i can not tell you if your friend lied, and no one else but your friend can tell you that, but i think that you should ask your friend face to face.
let her know that is was bugging you and that it hurt your feelings.
if you and her werent in a fight or had any intentions on being mad at eachother then i dont think she would have lied to you.
Or maybe she was just jealous that those guys were giving you more attention then her.
but it was 3 years ago!! i think its time to move on whether she lied or not

hope i helped =]

Q: what does "___ makes the world go round" mean
its means that its important to many people, and most people need it lol

hope i helpedd =]

Q: OK 13/F, I know this guy in one of my classes named Anthony. He seems like a nice guy, but my best friend Brittany told me that he asked out one of her friends out. She said that she didnt want me to go out with out with him because he'll try to make me have sex with him. I'm a virgin and I wanna stay that way untill I at least get married. But contining with the story, Brittany said that had a friend who went out with him and had sex and now they rarely ever talk becuase she's changed. The guy is kinda cute, but I don't know if I should take my friends advice or follow my feelings. Help me.
i say you go out with him,
see if you like him and if he feels the same way back,maybe has has changed.
If he tries to make a move on you (pressures you into sex)
then deff. brake up with him
wats there to loose??

hope i helped=]

Q: so there is this boy that i like and have liked for a while now. and we havent hung out yet. and everytime i have asked him something always comes up that we cant. well he asked me if i still wanted to hang out wtih him. i said yah i did and he said okay next weekend we will. and he said this last friday. now its monday and sometime this week should i say something to him about hanging out or should i wait and see if he says anything. and if i should sya something to him how should i go about it? any help will help
ask him casually whens a good nite for the two of you to get together, dont act mad that he wasnt able to, and maybe you could let him know that you were a little dissapointed

Q: I know this isn't really asking for advice, but the last few days I was just thinking about this and wondering why the people here joined.

I guess it is just out of pure curiosity. I would have just posted this in the moderator forum or in the supporter discussion, but I'd rather see why everyone joined rather than just those who have been here for some time and such.

So, why did you join advicenators and why are you still here? What about the site made you want to stay?

I'll probably be one of the first people to answer this (I'm not going to answer it in the question).

S_C

:]
hmm i think its a fun site to be a part of , and idk answering peoples questions and being able to relate to other peoples problems is interesting, also if youve been in a situation before and you find some one whos in a simmilar one it feels good to be able to help them out =]

Q: alright so i use concealer and foundation and stuff to give me a healthy glow and better looking skin.

but is there any creams or stuff to make it look like i'm wearing makeup when i wake up?

like firmer skin, glowing skin, perfect coloring... etc.

im 14 btw
well there isnt really a make up that can make you wake up and have you looking good, but if you wash your face with a scrub and use a mosterizer, it will keep your face in good condition

Q: How do you "hit on" a guy?
if your hitting on a guy then your flirting with him,

Q: when i talk to my friends on the phone
i can like be all like crazy and stuff
and we always think of stuff to talk about
like the most random stuff
but when i talk to a guy that i like
its like blah.
i dont even think of anything to talk about
and im shy
and me and this guy text alottt
and we live kinda far away and we might start a relationship
but its gonna hurt us alot if we do
becasue its my fault casue i like dont talk
and i hate it. im just really shy to guys i like
and he always gets mad at me cause i dont talk
so any suggestions what we can talk about
like i seriosuly need help with it
because we both like eachother alottttt!
make a list of subjects to talk about if you hit a blank,
you can also ask about his day, and your day, and maybe about what your plans are for tommarow
and mayb school?

hope i helped =]

Q: I really like this guy but he's so hung up on his ex-girlfriend. He has her on his top people on his myspace, he still text messages her, he's so nice to her and she treats him like shit that's why they broke up. Like if we talk shit to her he like apologies to her. He's like whipped by someone he's not even with they were only together for like 3 months. I like him a lot and he flirts with me but he's still hung up and I don't wanna be with someone who still talks to there ex girlfriend. What should I do?
first off, explain to him that he still has feelings for his ex and its obvious, also tell him that you care about him alot, and you dont want to feel like his ex is part of your relationship too, and that you dont want to worry about what you two are talking about and if he still has feelings for her.

Q: f 15
ive been dating my boyfriend for a year.
weve gone kinda far in bed... our pants have stayed on though. well i accidentally gave him a hicki and my parents freaked. i told them i had never kissed his neck before and i wanted to see what it was like... and it was an accident. *lie i know* i got in a ton of trouble. my mom started yelling and crying... but seriously im 15... she shouldnt really care about a hicki. my parents are thinking about making me break up with my boyfriend even though im completely in love with him. i just need help. :)
hah well first off explain to your parents what you think. Tell them that your boyfriend is very responcible and so are you, and that your sorry, this will help your parents to get over it and trust you again =]

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CaileyxCalamity

Hey there tart im Caileyy



im thirteen years young


im short


im happy..unless you give me a reason not to be =]


i get mad easily


my friends are kind of a big deal


i lied they are a really big deal =]


i eat yu-gi-oh cards..


no lie


im weird.. u dont have to tell me i already know


im shy... untill you get to know me


i think im funny


i laugh too much


i dont take things serious enough


and i dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing =]


i have an obsession with nightmare of you


there the best


im a neopets addict..


all day;; everyday


love that phrase =]


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