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Is it normal?
Is it normal that my boyfriend wants distance or space from me more often? We've been together for 9 1/2 months. But we used to hang out almost everyday and now he hardly wants to talk to me on the phone or be with me. I don't know what's going on or if it's normal. Lately he's rather wanting to play video games then to talk to me. What should I do?
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It is normal. Guys, just like girls, need some space. Whether it be with an XBox for him or a day at the mall for you, each one needs time for themselves and friends too. I wouldn't be too worried about it. If you still do talk and and hang out, but maybe not as much as you did when you began, then its OK. If you just aren't because he is refusing too because he'd rather do other things or because he feels like he is with you too much...then you might have another issue on your hand. But don't take it the wrong way or anything, and please don't feel that if he really did love you he would want to spend every waking moment with you all the time, because it doesn't always work that way. Give each other space, and if you feel like its going too far then sit him down and talk to him about it to see if you could do things differently. Hope that helped and good luck.
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It's normal for relationships to cool off a bit after a while and become more comfortable than the initial hot attractions and always wanting to be together but he seems to have just lost interest, period. Tell how you feel about it. It sounds like you should just end it and tell him that but if he makes an effort to spend more time with you thats how you will know if he still cares enough or not. If not you can find better. And if he is wanting that much space there is a tiny chance he may be cheating on you or (better chance of) deciding if he wants to dump you or not. Hope I helped!!!!!
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this is normal, dont take it personally, he prob. just needs a little alone time.
However, if it lasts for more then a week, then maybe you should ask him if everything is alright or if there is something he would like to talk about
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