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SHould I date him
OK 13/F, I know this guy in one of my classes named Anthony. He seems like a nice guy, but my best friend Brittany told me that he asked out one of her friends out. She said that she didnt want me to go out with out with him because he'll try to make me have sex with him. I'm a virgin and I wanna stay that way untill I at least get married. But contining with the story, Brittany said that had a friend who went out with him and had sex and now they rarely ever talk becuase she's changed. The guy is kinda cute, but I don't know if I should take my friends advice or follow my feelings. Help me.
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i say you go out with him,
see if you like him and if he feels the same way back,maybe has has changed.
If he tries to make a move on you (pressures you into sex)
then deff. brake up with him
wats there to loose??
hope i helped=]
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I was in the same situation once. Everyone told me not to go out with this guy, that all he wanted was sex. Well, I didn't listen to them. I really liked him, and I thought he really liked me. And I figured, if he really likes me, he'll be differnet with me than he was with other girls; he'll respect me and not push me to do things I wasn't ready for. Well... my friends turned out to be right! On the 2nd date he told me if I didn't have sex with him, he'd break up with me. So I said, "Later!" Of course I was heartbroken, but I learned my lesson, even though I had to learn it the hard way.
As for you... well, who knows? Maybe this guy WOULD be different with you? Or maybe not. You'll have to decide whether or not you want to take the chance. If you can prepare yourself for the possibility that your friend is right... and if you can be strong enough to show him the door if he gets too frisky... then give it a try. But if you think you might fall for him hard enough to be persuaded to do something you're not ready for, then take a pass. There are lots of other fish in the sea!
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When it comes to somthing as serouis as that don't date him.You 13 rite?Then you shouldnt be even stressing bout stupid shit like this!Trust me whn i say you only live once!enjoy it girl don't be letting those cute guys get the best of you.If your freinds are true ones then listen to them.If they not then go fro it girl but if he makes a move tell me your gaurdain angel and i'll teach him a lseeon bout touching you!Love your gaurdain angel:)
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