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MY EFFING FRIEND
Whoever reads this please help!!!!I have this friend who me and my friends are fed up with she always starts drama and to add some stuff she can cry on command to make people feel bad for her!!!!I SWARE!!Ok so she likes this guy and is OBSESSED and he hates her so much...BTW everytime we get in a fight she basically says rude remarks about this guy to us because me and my friend hang out with him alot beacause she is JEALOUS!!!I really need some help. Like and when she feels like being mean she will say a rude remark and when she is trying to be nice she trys to act cute "which never is" and if me and my friends didnt hang out with her she would have none because she is so mean to everyone else!!Then when we talk about "girl stuff" she trys to make her boobs look big cause she has none! And one time she wrote me a note saying how greasy my face was but if you read this please help me!! i NEED HELP LIKE SHOULD I still be friends with her and if not how do i tell her to be nice and not bratty?!?!?!?!?!?!
THanx
MissyMay123
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actually, this girl doesnt seem very nice. some people just cry for attention. If she always brags, then that isnt nice cause she knows she has small breasts, and then you dont say anything. but then she then tells you how greasy your face looks, and you dont say anything. So I don't think she is a very good friend by just those 2 things. Just say like, how come you always cry for attention? if she says no, then say well how come you always cry then? if she says something mean back, then reply by saying: you know you shouldnt make your breasts look so big, i dont say anything about you and you called my face greasy. and then blah, if she says like reasons, then just say I dont think we should be friends anymore. and just ignore her.
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It sounds like you might be better off without this girl. Obviously she has some problems... she's probably very insecure and doesn't feel good about herself. So she acts this way to get attention, thinking it will make people like her. She cuts people down, thinking it will make her look better in comparison. But what she doesn't realize is that this is backfiring... it's actually making her look worse.
And that's really sad. You might feel sorry for her, and wish you could help her. It'd be great if you could sit down and talk to her about the way her behavior is turing people against her. But the truth is, that probably wouldn't work. Chances are she would get mad and defensive and start even more drama.
Sometimes people have to learn these things on their own, the hard way. It might take having no friends to get her to realize that she needs to change. It may sound harsh, but that might be the best thing for her. AND for you and your friends.
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From what you tell me I say she can change her ways perhaps try to save your friendship you see what she needs is some attention,she is feeling left out because she feels that you are spending too much time with him,she still feels anger towards the guy because she sees it like the guy rejected her she's in pain right now so tell her nicely that you don't want to lose her friendship and you want to be honest with her but also not to take it the wrong way,that she shouldn't be mean to others its just not the way to act,that she shouldn't take her anger on others who didn't do anything to her,also that no offense but she is bratty so she needs to change that before others,everyone start not to even bother to want to talk to her.Good luck!
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OK OK OK!!!Calm down heres what you do!!!!If its fucking up your life then forget her.She oviresly isnt a true freind.Don't waste time on poeple who don't love you and who are true.And if you want a nice way to tell her to be more nice this what you do:Go somewhere safe(no knifes or anything a crazy girl can get to lol:P)Tell her that she betetr stop with the stupid drama shit and grow up cuz its gettin fing anoying!There you go:).Hope I helped!:)
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