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is this normal?
okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date him.. err idk. like i was sleeping over at my friends house for her birthday and like i was just laying there because everyone had already fallen asleep and i kept like wishing he ws there and like i know this sounds weird but i just wanted to like cuddle with him.... like idk when we were going out i felt like really safe when he had his arm(s) around me.
sorry if it's long, confusing and doesn't make sense.
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hey! I know this is really random but how old r you? or generally and is he older than you and by how much? please answer because it affects how i respond. And has he dated other girls in between the time you guys were dating and how long were you guys dating for. Like all this occured during 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, ect. Just tell me what you feel comfortable with when it comes to your age too. And how did you break up with him? like did you tell him why you couldn't date him? Just put your answers under extra info.
And does he have any other love interests? Even mildly? Because if he does I dont think you should tell him how you feel. I think you should just find another boy! There are tons of great boys out there!!!
Ok, well I really storngly suggest you leave him because if he is doing stuff like this then you can find A MUCH better boy who cares about you and respects women! You should tell him what you think and tell him you can't respect him when he does that! Please find another guy that is worth you! I know you can you just have to wait a little bit and do a little searching! The reason i wanted to know about you is because my friend had the same problem with you only the guy isn't that perverted. He changed his ways and is one of the best guys i know!!! Good Luck! And don't feel discouraged because there are amazing boys out there! And they're just waiting for you! :D
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You apparently like him because if you didn't you would have said,
"okay well i think i like this guy"
That's my first thing.
Second, if your parents don't like him why can't you respect the fact that they don't like him for your better and not theirs? They're not the ones who are going to date him, you are.
Third, if he did irresponsible and stupid things with a girl when he was 12, it should give you the feeling that he's probably not the yummiest fish in the sea.
Oh and I should probably tell you this, part of being a guy and having girl friends (IN MY OPINION) is flirting with them. Hense the kisses and, "I don't know what I'd do without you"
And if he said, "HAHA nice clevage" it apparently meant nothing with the "HAHA"
I think you should just move onto better things, who knows you may end up feeling a lot safer in another guy's hands.
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you obviously have feelings for this guy.. soo i say you tell him ! it seems like he could like you too!!
soo whats there to loose?
if he likes you too, hanging out together could be a problem, because of your parents ,
you should explain to your parents all the positive things he does
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