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are they true friends?


Question Posted Monday August 20 2007, 9:25 am

okay, well anytime me and my friends hangout, just me and her, we have a really really good time. but everytime we invite anothe one of my friends to come hangout with us i'm always the one to get left out.. i really don't understand why.. for ex. the night before last i invited one of my friends over to stay the night and then i was talking to my other friend that i used to be BESTFRIENDS with but we hadn't really hung out in awhile and we went downtown to the shops and they just kinda ditched me.. and like they wouldn't of even ben together if i hadn't invited them both.

- okay, this happens alot with like all of my friends... i don't see what the problem is.
this year, for school were all on diffrent teams, so were not really gonna see eachother except for lunch so i don't know whats going to happen...
and please don't say talk to her about it because i tried that and it just blew up in my face and we got into a HUGE fight, and i really don't like fighting with my "firiends"
-thanks in advance.


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missymay123 answered Monday August 20 2007, 8:17 pm:
Ok well I have been in that situation then one day we got in a fight for a week after that they treaated me respectfully and now they are all sweet and i know you dont want people to say talk about it because that doesnt help all the time so what you should do is hang out with a bunch of new people who will treat you respectfully so also keep in mind not to drop a friend be nice to her and if she asks you why you arent hanging out with her and tell her the truth you want her to understand so dont worry and if she tries to get mad at you just say i tried telling you before and this is what happend i want you to respect me and thats all so i hope your frendship goes lot better!!

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gaurdainangel answered Monday August 20 2007, 12:57 pm:
Ok listen.They sound like just friedns not true freinds.don't get attached to them or reli on them.They are like your bordem freinds:p you only hangout with them when your bored becuz they truly are not true freinds for you.And i understand where your coming from.i had the same problem.i kinda do still lol:Pbut ya it ticks you off so bad you just wanna urrgg!lol:).But dnt stress it just say to yourself that your better than that.Show them that it aint ganna bother you and if their ganna act messed up forget em.When they come to you for somthing be like no its your problem.You know just to show them that you got feelings that your not their b****lol:).hope i helped you.

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