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So I'm a 19 year old guy, and to sum it up I've never been in a real relationship. I've had lots of opportunities to go out with girls and I've been asked out by about 5 so far. The problem is that I really want to be in a relationship and I'm very attracted towards women, but whenever things start going right with girls it's like I need to get out of it. And no, I'm not gay. I feel really confident in myself physically and mentally, I'm very involved at my university, and I have lots of friends both guys and girls. I don't have lots of experience with girls as far as in relationships, but I feel very confident when talking to them. Sometimes I plan to ask a girl out, but then I lose interest in her within a week or so. It's like I have to make sure it doesn't work out even if things go well. Everyday I think about how I still don't have a girlfriend and it drives me insane!
What advice can you give me to start dating chicks and getting more comfortable with dating? Anyones advice is welcome of course.
-Thanks a lot
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it sounds like your looking at all the negatives, like maybe thinking that oh, shes nt going to like me because i don't have alot of experience.
I think you should focus on the positives, like wow, i really like this girl and she likes me back.
well, good luck :]
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I think You should date even if you lose interest maybe you actually need to get to know the person better and you might gain the interest back and if you dont move on. And stop thinking about the negatives in a person try to the see the good but at the same time dont let your guard down.Stop trying to make the relationship work if things are going good dont make them stop.And also so you dont lose interest in a girl try to find one that is hard to get that may keep you busy for a while and keep interest . hope this helps
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