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omg, i'm lame.
I'm 15.
and boyfriendless.
and it sucks.
so i was talking to my friend Amelia, and she says i don't flirt with guys enough. all of my friends are guys, I'm really feminine, but i have a lot of guy friends, and i tend to act... not flirty? i guess.
ugh, idk. i guess i'm asking, if theres anything i can do to to flirt more/ be more confident?
don't laugh, this is my first post.
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I would never laugh, my advice for you is to find maybe two guys that catch ure attention (u can start out with one if you like)....but these guy(s) have to be accessible, like ones you see on a consistent regular basis. If you dont flirt alot, then it might not come as easily, (im like this), so imagine ureself looking at them sheepishly (u know shy, with a hint of a smile) until they notice and then look away. The catch is that if you want to be in control, when they catch you looking, then you have to look away slowly, maybe even smile first. U have an advantage having alot of guy friends, because that means that you shouldnt have trouble going up to a guy and talkin to them. Smile alot, and when you are talking to them, stare at them straight in the eyes, and giggle. If youare doing it right (which im sure u will be) then the boys will be receptive, and react to you. When you notice that they are reacting in a good way to ure gestures, then believe me, you will feel in control and more confident. If you dont like them like that, then thats cool, at least you will have the confidence to go for someone you really like. I really hope i helped
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honey I have been bfless for longer than I can remember so its not lame but I do agree it does suck.
You dont need to flirt but what you could do is if you like a guy start a convo on idn football/soccer or somethin that he likes maby even start small like his fave film or actor also speak to your guy mates and ask if they have any advice for you on this. The best thing to do on my advice is speak to guys like they're a mate and see where it goes from there don't think you need to act like a slut to get the guy, they're more interested in you as a person other than how good you can flirt.
Good luck and hopefully you get the confidence to find that guy that youre meant to be with.
luv dxxx
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