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Question for guys
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 11:55 pm
THIS IS A QUESTION FOR A GUY'S OPINION ONLY
Where do guys like the girls to put their hands when they are making out?
Please don't say penis =P
Thanks in advance!
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symbolic?
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 11:26 pm
Somebody left a voicemail on my cell singing "Somewhere over the rainbow" just those words, not the whole song. I have a suspicion its my crush. We don't talk much but I guess we're friends. I was just wondering if he chose that song on purpose because it had a symbolic meaning. What do you think?
F/16
PS: I could be wrong but I think he was the only one there, like he called by himself. There were no voices in the background, no laughing, just horrible singing ;)
Should I call him back? What do I say? The number was blocked by the way.
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Older guys
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 11:10 pm
Younger [teen] guys are easier to start a conversation with than guys who are, lets say in their late teens or early 20's. i think, and you can correct me, that after they've hit 27 and older, they start seeing you more as a daughter and little girl than anything else [not that i'm interested in anyone that old]. so i'm l6/f, and i like an older guy who i'm sure feels the same way. The problem is that even though he's only 19, he acts more mature than his age, and i don't think he knows quite how to get more comfortable with me, which in turn, makes me feel awkward as well. I want to do so without him thinking of me as a little whore who needs to get screwed, but i don't know where or how to touch him, playfully of course. interestingly eno...
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Is it love...?
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 11:08 pm
17/f. Last December I lost my virginity to my best guy friend. Let's call him Jake. (He wasn't a virgin, fyi, but he knows I was). Ever since then I've been so strongly attached to him. I don't have a crush on him, which is good cuz he now has a g/f he loves very much, and I'm currently crazy about this other boy. But everytime I think about Jake I get this sense of almost overwhelming care and compassion. I would jump in front of a bullet for him and I value his opinion more than anyone's.
He and I argue and bicker a lot, but I always end up forgiving him, whether or not I know I'm right. He pisses me off probably more than anyone I know, but he also makes me smile more than anyone, too.
When I think about it...
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invading my territory?
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 11:00 pm
I'm 18 and just started college. Recently, my boyfriend and I had a horrible break-up. He knew that it shook me hard & he's still cocky. I love college and I have many friends. The problem is, he'll be coming to my school next semester. I can't help feeling that it's my territory he's invading. School is somewhere away from him and to get my mind off him. What am I supposed to do when he suddenly shows up? He'll be a constant reminder of heartache and I won't want to go to school anymore!
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Confoooooosed.
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 10:26 pm
16/m
Sorry this might be long. Well. We'll just call this girl R, lol. She's really weird just like me and shes like my best friend n all that. I am really starting to like her. A lot. We stay up talking on weekends sometimes, and we never run out of things to talk about.
Problem is, she has a boyfriend. They've been going out for like a really really long time, and I wouldn't tell her I like her when she has a boyfriend. So I've been waiting. And nothing changes. I still like her.
But a couple nights ago she left me this really long message saying that she liked me as more than a friend. And she also wrote in it "I know i have a boyfriend and all that, which is why i'm having a really hard ...
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I dont know what to do
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 10:14 pm
Ok im 14/m and I love this girl, and I kindoff asked her 2 best freinds about her it and they both said they wouldnt tell anyone but one opens his mouth to much. My heart is saying to tell her but then I kindoff ruin everything for me and her cause then she will lose her freinds and possibly me. What should i doo, I love her and I dont know what to do:'(
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My friends boyfriend likes me...
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 7:19 pm
I am a middle school girl. I have a good friend. Lets call her sarah. Sarah has a boyfriend and he is new to our school this year. He told me that he liked me and i liked him to. But i dont want my friend to find out. But now he is denying that he ever said that and i dont know what to do. Sorry if this confused you.
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I don't know if I should believe him.
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 6:57 pm
I hope a lot of people read this, because I need a lot of advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months, and it's been the happiest four months I've had in a long time. Well, what happened, was before we started dating, him and his girlfriend at the time had just broken up. So, I'd log onto Myspace & she'd send me a bunch of crap saying how I was fat and ugly, and how I stole him from her. I ignored it. Honestly, I think she's insaneeee!
Anyways, I told Alex, my boyfriend when we first started dating, that I didn't mind if he talked to her, because I didn't want to seem possessive. But, like a week into them talking, he told me the stuff they were saying and I just told him he had to choose either her or me....
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is it bad that...?
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 6:13 pm
me and my boyfriend don't really talk on the phone? we've only been dating for a little little bit and we text a lot and talk on aim too, and i actually have hung out with him, unlike any of the other people i've gone out with [which i don't really count anyways] i don't know everyone else always like talks on the phone. is that bad/weird or whatever?
14/f/freshman
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im so overwhelmed
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 5:52 pm
this might get a little confusing but i really need someones opinion.
okay so this kid zach likes me, but i only see him as a friend and homecoming was a couple days ago and i was dancing with him, but just as friends and he was saying how much he liked me but i told him i didnt see him as any more than a friend, so he asked me to dance the last dance with him as friends, and i said yes(turns out there wasnt even a slow dance though) and then he walked away for a while and this guy barrie come up behind me and we start dancing and then i got really tired so i sat down and barrie sat down with me and he had his arm around me and then zach walks over and seriously freaks out and makes a big scene because barrie has his arm aro...
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All the signs are their !
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 5:31 pm
Okay,
i think this guy lets call him Leeroy really likes me! AND I LIKE HIM ALOT!! People ar elike oh he likes you so believe them maybe in omeone else's point of view maybe not. Anyone want to help me?
Well he stares at me alot and our eyes meet. Whenever someone asks oh do you like ashley he blushes like a cherry and he has never sed no but he says i don't know. I use to say goodbye and hug him but then i got shy all of sudden when i found out i liked him so i stopped. Everyday he always kind of waits and sees if i'm going to but he doesn't make it obviouse. Like his friend is by my locker so he goes their and talks to his friend but staring at me. Like he's waiting .. Does he like me?
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how to make a move
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 3:38 pm
hey i am 15/f and my friend robert and i are really close and we are such good friends. we both know we like eachother as more than friends, and we have hooked up before. but the thing is, when we hang out we usually dont end up kissing or anything cause we have such a friend and joking around relationship that it seems weird and we always just have a great time doing other stuff. what are some fun ways i can let him know i want him to kiss me, or even funny ways or things i could do to kiss him. or even ways to change the conversation casually to a more intesne one about like us or romantic based.
thanks! : ]
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love life.
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 3:31 pm
ok. so, my friends all hate my bf, and i thought it was nothing. but, the other night, he kept making extremely rude comments about me and other people. and, he apologized L8R and everything, but i dunno. since then i've totally seen him in a different light. i've been seeing him the way my friends have. and, i mean-- we were, well-- are rlly close, and we love each other. but i think he is an ass hole now. i dunno what to do! please help me.
thank you soo much!
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Help :(
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 3:21 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me the other day and I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with it...
I totally understand why he did it as well and I'm not angry and I don't think it's a stupid reason at all. But somehow that makes it worse, that I can't like focus all this onto anger or whatever. It just makes me angry at the situation and so torn apart that he doesn't feel the same way as I do.
There is nothing I can do to get back together with him and I know this. But this doesn't stop me feeling as though everything has fallen apart. I know this probably sounds lame and I always used to think it was lame when people act like this, but I have never been dumped before, especially not by someone I thought I was genuinely in love ...
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Apologizing
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 2:30 pm
I messed up with this guy that I was really into. It's been about a month or so since we've really, really talked. I let a friend influence me to tell him that I didn't want him calling me anymore. From the moment I said it, I've regretted it every single second. It was a lie. Tomorrow he's bringing me to work because he's going to do some work on my car while I'm at work...I told him Saturday I wanted to talk to him and if he had 15-30 minutes, I wouldn't take too much of his time. He said he was working Sunday, but he'd give me a call. He never called me. Well, I called his job today about my car and ended speaking to him and he told me instead of bringing it late today, to bring it tomorrow morning and he would drive me to work and drop ...
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is he worth it
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 7:23 am
16/f
i know this kid who's really sweet. he's skater and he smokes cigarettes and pot and he drinks like every weekend. he's really nice to me and makes an effort to talk to me even if it's about something stupid. for example, if he was absent he'll ask me what we did in class even though i know he doesn't care what we did. he says he's going to try to stop smoking pot but he hasn't done it yet. personally i don't like smokers. i don't want to "kiss an ashtray" but he is really sweet and i heard he might like me from a friend of his. so do i make an effort and forget about the bad things and just have a relationship with him or is it just too many bad things to ignore?
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sex??
Posted Monday October 15 2007, 12:03 am
so, my boyfriend& i are not having good sex. and it use to be good. not amazing. but good. and lately, like for the past 2 months it has been horrbile. fingering me use to feel good. and now it doesnt. and i dont know what happened. i recently got off the pill and i thought maybe that could affect my sex drive? is that possible?
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getting over a boy and giving up my hopes of what will never
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 11:33 pm
17/F, There is this boy that I've liked since 7th grade but nothing really happened. During junior year, he told me that he had feelings for me for a long time but he was scared to do something. After that, something horrible happened to his family and his best friend passed away at the same time. and he stopped talking to me and he was avoiding me. It just hurt so much that he wanted nothing to do with me and that he wasn't willing to be at least friends with me. I had my friend ask him why he was doing this and he said that he would rather not have a relationship then to hurt or upset me if he brought his anger out on me. since its now my senior year, I still have feelings for this guy and I have a hard time letting go because it seems li...
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will it ever happen?
Posted Sunday October 14 2007, 8:59 pm
15/f
i'm a sophmore in highschool and i've never been kissed and never had a boyfriend.Please don't write "it's going to happen someday" or "just wait, it'll come soon when you're not expecting it" But, the thing is it seems like i'm the one who's scaring off all the guys though.I come off pretty mean. But it's like every time i try to tell myself to be nice or don't say anything hurtful, it happens anyway. It's like I can't control what my actions. So basically i want advice on how to be a lot less mean, and way more nice.i know it sounds stupid, but i think if i had like the right mind set then maybe i can get somewhere in my social life.
THANX IN ADVANCE!
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