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im so overwhelmed
this might get a little confusing but i really need someones opinion.
okay so this kid zach likes me, but i only see him as a friend and homecoming was a couple days ago and i was dancing with him, but just as friends and he was saying how much he liked me but i told him i didnt see him as any more than a friend, so he asked me to dance the last dance with him as friends, and i said yes(turns out there wasnt even a slow dance though) and then he walked away for a while and this guy barrie come up behind me and we start dancing and then i got really tired so i sat down and barrie sat down with me and he had his arm around me and then zach walks over and seriously freaks out and makes a big scene because barrie has his arm around me and he goes off and tells all these people me and barrie are dating and barrie went and agreed, because he likes me, but i only see him as a friend to so i had to explain to all these people that im not going out with either of them, and then my EX pete IM's me and asks if me and barrie are dating and i say no, and pete was asking because that would mean we couldnt hook up anymore, because pete has a girlfriend but he wants to brake up with her( dont tell me im a slut because i hook up with someone that has a girlfriend, i dont need a lecture) but anyways so i explain it to pete and then the next day at school zach freaks out again and wont talk to me and i thought we worked everything out but now im falling my chorus class because i refuse to go in there with zach because all he does is say stupid shit like if i went to the bathroom he would be like " shes not going to the bathroom shes going to find barrie" and it just annoys me, and me and zach use to be best friends and i miss that a lot.
but then theres this other guy bryan who i kinda like and i told him and he told me all this stuff how he liked me and then the next day i find out hes going out with this girl that like ;ives in a diffrent state and he will never see and like he just completely lied to me and i dont no what to do? should i forget about bryan?
but alos theres this guy alex who i like we almost went out but i waited to long and his EX came back to him and im still not over him really, ( we kinda hooked up) and i just really like him but hes also the reason me and pete arnt together and i actually love pete a lot like more than anyone but i like a couple people to? im just so overwhelmed.
and then there is this guy richie who is really nice and stuff and i kinda like him and everyone is telling me to forget about the other guys and just try for richie but i think i put myself in a hard position with all these guys and i do realizes i lead a couple of them on.. so i guess my quesition is does anyone have any advice how i can fix this and get my life somewhat back on track so im not failing and not feeling horrible about all this drama?
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Too many entanglements. It's better to be "friends first" with guys before you date them. Most girls with any brains usually put off serious dating until University. I strongly recommend that course for you. Just say to the boys: "Back off, I'm too young to date" And enjoy the free time that you have by just being friends with them and spending time with your family. (Your dad, mom and siblings, remember them?) Not only that, something in your question leads me to believe that you are on the path to finding yourself carrying a baby. Don't go there. You are wayyyy too young for that. If you are a Christian or a Jew: Then listen to your parents and your religious leaders. I also recommend you read the Gospel of John in the Bible. Salvation is the only real way to put your life back in order.
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