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I dont know what to do


Question Posted Monday October 15 2007, 10:14 pm

Ok im 14/m and I love this girl, and I kindoff asked her 2 best freinds about her it and they both said they wouldnt tell anyone but one opens his mouth to much. My heart is saying to tell her but then I kindoff ruin everything for me and her cause then she will lose her freinds and possibly me. What should i doo, I love her and I dont know what to do:'(

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beloved answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:48 pm:
ok well i think that you should tell her how you feel before she hears it from someone else...she might get the wrong idea if someone other than you tries to explain it...but always remember to be yourself...if she doesnt like you for who you are then she is't girlfriend worthy...and be sure to know what you want to say to her before you say it...im not sayin practice in front of your mirror or anything but just be aware of what you say and how you say it.

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callmeSERAPHIM answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:51 am:
Well its bad to hold in your feelings for anyone. You do really like her and i hate to say that you are young but i mean when is the age when love starts or even puppy love. Well you have to tell her how you feel because you have to do your own thing, in other words you have move on with whats in your life. If i were you i would avoid rushing into anything thats a boyfriend/girlfriend type. You really have to take time with that. What exactly do you really want to tell her though? You should think about that before saying anything. And see if she wants the same with you. If you both do then work slowly on spending time and if you guys want to and are ready then move up.

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LagunaBabe answered Tuesday October 16 2007, 7:48 am:
I know that you love her and since I'm a girl, I commend you for caring enough to tell he this. However, I think it would be best to let it go. If it continues to happen again, that's when I would say something. Friends get aggravated sometimes and say things that don't mean, so it could ruin the friendship for almost nothing.

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