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How should I approach him?
Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 2:05 pm
I've never really had challenges talking to guys because they usually come to me...like I've never really had to start talking to them first. There's this kid at my school and he's probably the most adorable kid ever but he's really popular and I think he might be a little superficial. I'm a junior and he's a senior so I always see him in the halls but I don't have the balls to actually talkk to him. I'm not shy, really but Idk how to approach him. Any ideas? I'm really bold and outgoing haha. Like I do subtle things like brush up against him and stuff, but idk if he has the idea that i like him yet. I really wanna talk to him...
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Break-up after 2 years
Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 8:51 am
Alright, I will give you a basic overview of the situation here.
We were together for almost 3 years. I was his first girlfriend, we started dating when he was 18 and now he's 21. I am 18 almost 19
Well, he broke up with me last night. His main point in the break-up was that he does not have time for a relationship because he wants to put all of his focus on school (he is a mechanical engineering major). He also feels that we are too attched. Reason being that he has been there for me through my entire family falling apart basically. He has been the only one that has remained stable through everthing in life. He is the only one who has stayed with me.
I have put alot of pressure on him due to this, i have been needy a...
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how
Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 8:46 am
how to i get a girl to like me if she doesnt know i exist?
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is THIS love?
Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 5:29 am
You know how love can be based on looks,personality,interest,etc.etc.?
well can it be based only one?I think so,but I want your opinion too,like some girls just love a guy cause he looks hot and then only get to know him further,and some girls like guys that play guitar.
anywayws,i met this gal online,and we did not see each other at all,after talking for quite a while we logged off.then the following day we chatted again for hours.She then told me that she likes me and really loves my personality and the way I talk and asked me to be her bf.
So the question is this,is that love? or maybe like?(If love is too strong a word).In this situation,can it be counted that this girl actually likes me? or ...
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long distance relationships
Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 3:25 am
i need some oppinions on my current status.
me and this guy has been on and off for 3-4 years now. we've known eachother for our whole lives, seriously. this is his 2nd year in college, hes away over seas. in hawaii and im here in california. theres times when we talk everynight. and then times when we talk every other day, even once a week or even once every two weeks. we call eachother boy/girl friend and always babe. but its difficult, we agreed on an "open relationship" kind of thing. like he can do his, and i do mine, but yet we still have eachother and especially when he comes home on holidays.
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a boy i like
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 9:59 pm
so i'm in 9th grade and i'm 14. i really like this guy and we'll just call him...timmy.lol. ok, well, i've liked timmy pretty much since the begining of the skewl year. well, he found out that i like him cause my friend sorta told him (its a really long story..) well, he told her that he doesn't like me that much, but he would probably like me more if he knew me more. and his friend and my friend just told me to talk to him and have a convo w/ him. btw i have 3 classes with him and a lunch if that helps. well, at the start of the year, i didn't talk to him a whole bunch, but this past week i've been talking to him quite a bit. but there is a prob. he is going to ask this other girl out. so i'm really pissed cause right when i start talking...
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high school sweetheart
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 9:48 pm
hey i was just wondering if any of you married your high school sweethearts? if you have any cool stories about your relationship please share! :]
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Girl wants to kiss me
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 7:26 pm
i go to movies and hang out with my friends at main street almost every weekend and when I see a movie this girl that I like(she like me too lol)olivia will kinda lean on me--and she keeps giving me hints to kiss her...wat should i do and how should i do it? i dont want my friends to c it btw.
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too shy.
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 6:36 pm
hey. im normally a really outgoing girl, but whenever im around my crush i totally freak out, and i cant think of anything to say ! its so annoying. he will be standing next to me, and i will just stand there too. i dont want him to think im not interested, because i really am.
so what are some good topics to talk about, or what would you do?
thanks!
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AND...
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 6:12 pm
I remeber that i told her this
"why cant you just tell me? its not that hard"
Lara said"yeah well its easy for you"
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Okay the thing is all i wanted is to tell her how i felt to get off my chest. i never thought she might like me back. but then this happens. Lara might be unsure of her feelings to me and i can understand that. it took me 6 years to realized i have feelings for her. i am not going to force her to like me back. but i want her to be honset to me and no lies.
its her time to step up now, i know she shok her head no to me. so i am not going to hang on this for 7 more years. i do have a hobbie, i am a artist so i draw when i have ti...
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What to do???
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 5:39 pm
ok... I have this boyfriend, we were together since December 20,2003. We had our first baby together. but we argue alot. I'm starting to really like this other guy who seems to be nicer then my boyfriend. I like this other guy more then my boyfriend, but i'm scared that if i leave my boyfriend and this other guy might turn out to be not what i expected. what should i do?? what would you do??
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questions.
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 5:36 pm
ok me and my boyfriend loving asking eachother question more personal than anything but i cant think of any and they are usually really good conversation starters could anyone help?
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i've never made out
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 5:10 pm
okay so im going over somebodys house on saturday. its going to be my friend, her boyfriend, me, and my boyfriend. so im pretty sure that its going to be fun and everything and we're going to make out and stuff..and i've never made out. i am soo nervous and excited.
any tips?
and like any tips over all for the night?
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broken-heart
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 2:32 pm
how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and you have done everything with him. ALMOST EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR sex. but how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and from someone you really lpoved and first kiss..
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um i'm confused about my sexuality...sort of
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 10:22 am
i'm female, 15....its an odd thing because i know i'm bi, i've established that fact but i'm not sure what to do. no one knows about it and i think i have a crush on someone. i know she's not bi or gay but still; and i have a crush on a guy too.
im not sure what to do or if i should let people know about me being bi. i feel i won't be accepted. its just frustrating. what should i do?
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Did I do the right thing?
Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 6:08 am
I had this boyfriend for 4 years and he dumped me tons of times, then decided we should be friends. After a while, he questioned about getting back together and I said I wanted to. Then bam, he hit me with the news of saying theres another girl and that he can't choose. I told him theres no choice because I'm gone. Did I do the right thing?
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girl and guy and girl and guy
Posted Tuesday October 16 2007, 11:59 pm
i was dating this guy. we broke up because it wasnt working out, he was a total jerk and i just couldnt handle arguing with him anymore! 2 days after we broke up, he had another girlfriend! i mean its whatever, but gimme a break! that's not even enough time to have the balls to call a girl!! so i walked up to him one day and im like, "so, you know its been two days since we broke up.. how long have you and *shelley been talking for?" he said, " 2 days" i know thats not true. they must've been talking for longer than that. i mean it took him like 2 weeks to ask me out! i want to be mean to her and make her feel like an butthole because she knew we were dating. but i dont wanna deal with him coming up to me and yelling at ...
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Boyfriend's Uncle
Posted Tuesday October 16 2007, 11:38 pm
Okay, so I have a bit of an odd situation... that's slightly complicated, at best.
I'm 20, female, and in a long distance relationship with a guy on the other side of the planet who is 17. Big distance there, as you well know.
Anyhow, I talked to his step mum's brother for the first time today, and he kind of halfway hit on me. He's about fifteen years older than I am. It was a little awkward because he's so much older, and I'm a relationship with his step nephew. The thing is, most of my bf's family doesn't know that he and I are in a relationship, his step uncle included. Do I tell him about being hit on by the guy, or do I keep it quiet and only give vague details? I'm completely at a loss at what to do with...
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Friend dating someone younger.
Posted Tuesday October 16 2007, 11:07 pm
Alright, well usually I'll agree 'age is just a number' but this situation...
My friend is a 15 year old girl and she's dating a 12 year old boy. I mean, yeah age is just a number but this is weird. People usually say on here 'Remember someone who is older wants a different kind of relationship' and that's true. A 12 year old boy has just left his "Girls have cooties" stage for gods sake!
Well my question is, do you think it's right that they're dating? Or is just me thinking it's wrong?
Also should I just let her be happy, or should I say something? If so, how should I put it?
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I'm driving my self nuts
Posted Tuesday October 16 2007, 10:01 pm
Ok so this is what happned I went out with this girl in 7th grade and now were in 11th and I broke up with her cause I thought she didnt like me and we have gone out severl times since to try and make things they way they were when we first went out. They we hated each other in 8th grade and didnt talk, freshman year we started talking again as friends cause I was in a relationship. At the end of sophmore year we both were in relationships and I had feelings for her and she felt the same way I considered presuing a relationship with her. Now I have just recently started talking to her again as friends and even though were both in relationships I can't stop thinking about her and its driving me insane I need advice.
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