Question Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 10:22 am
i'm female, 15....its an odd thing because i know i'm bi, i've established that fact but i'm not sure what to do. no one knows about it and i think i have a crush on someone. i know she's not bi or gay but still; and i have a crush on a guy too.
im not sure what to do or if i should let people know about me being bi. i feel i won't be accepted. its just frustrating. what should i do?
from (confused about...everything)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? helper_101 answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 8:53 pm: Dear confused...
i bet its tough wanting to tell people how you really are, but you are afraid that you cant. right? well, ill be honest. there are gonna be some harsh people in this world. and sometimes, the best thing to do is just not tell anyone. But, i think that you can handle it. If people dont accept you for who you truly are , its there loss. The whole guy thing.. you dont have to make any decisions right now. Follow your heart, and see where it guides you. Any other questions, askkkk me :]
x0advice4y3w answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 2:40 pm: You honestly might not be bisexual. During this age girls/guys tend to think they are, but later in life they might not even be at all. It could be just a fase, and if it is have fun with it. Who cares if your not accepted, then the people aren't worth it. Go for what you want. [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
thelaura answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 2:00 pm: Give it a bit more time. People assume they're bi because they fancy someone of the same sex. A year or two passes and they realize it was just a phase.
If you still feel the same later, that's fine. Noone should judge you on your sexuality. There's plenty of bisexuals in the world...
15 is a young age to just throw yourself into a category and be expected to live by it. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 12:43 pm: Well, i think you should find out what exactly you are ..
Find yourself before you tell anyone about it..
so that way you might tell people your bi..
and then turns out you were straight
just give it some time and dont rush into anything
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