i was dating this guy. we broke up because it wasnt working out, he was a total jerk and i just couldnt handle arguing with him anymore! 2 days after we broke up, he had another girlfriend! i mean its whatever, but gimme a break! that's not even enough time to have the balls to call a girl!! so i walked up to him one day and im like, "so, you know its been two days since we broke up.. how long have you and *shelley been talking for?" he said, " 2 days" i know thats not true. they must've been talking for longer than that. i mean it took him like 2 weeks to ask me out! i want to be mean to her and make her feel like an butthole because she knew we were dating. but i dont wanna deal with him coming up to me and yelling at me. even though i'd do it right back.. now, dont get the idea that i still like him, because i dont. i just really hate the girl he's with, AND he did me wrong.. what should i do?
sorry so long!
blackrose13 answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 11:00 am: Ignore him
forget him!
and act like you dont care AT ALL
hang out with friends
Laugh
smile!
never make him feel
that theres something wronge with you
Look for somone new (ofcourse thats your choice)
Dont look at him
Dont look at her
If you be mean to her , you will get nothing out of it All that youll be showing her is that
your jelouse which ofcoursE you shouldnt be and dnt be ashamed that you are its okay we all get jealouse at one point
but anyway just pretend that nothing happend what so ever so that he doesnt be so concieded
thelaura answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 9:37 am: I know you're angry, and you probably don't want to see him happy with another girlfriend, especially only 2 days after you guys have broken up. But do you know what the best thing to do is?:
1. Ignore him.
2. Ignore his girlfriend.
*Don't approach him OR her at all.*
You need to act like you aren't bothered. Do not show any feelings towards them.
When he sees you aren't bothered by any of it, it may make him realize he's being an idiot.
He could be in this new relationship to get back at you - it doesn't mean he was talking to her whilst he was with you. It could even be a rebound.
Either way, you're better off without him. Don't let him get to you.
Have fun with your friends and don't give him any more of your time.
Get on with your life and be happy. If you need to vent off anger, talk about it to your friends. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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