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broken-heart
how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and you have done everything with him. ALMOST EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR sex. but how can you survive a broken heart from a first love and from someone you really lpoved and first kiss..
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wow, this exact situation happened to me! afew months ago i broke up with my first boyfriend and i did everything with him also, except for sex. right now i cant honestly say im 100% over him, but day by day it is getting better. in the beginning people didnt understand how upset i was, i was pretty young to be so in love. Most of my friends would just say you have to forget about him, but its not that easy. to get to where i am today i had to let a lot of anger out. Although its ironic crying and listening to sad songs really helped me out. After my anger surpassed, i cut off all contact with him. it was hard, but eventually i started thinking less, and less about him. When i get reminded of him now, i think of all of the reasons he isnt right for me and why i was so angry with him. But realy i think the only things that can help you to get over your first love is to find a new one and also to just enjoy your life, concentrating on the next most important thing. concentrating on my relationships with my friends and perfecting them, helps me to overcome my broken heart.
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Trying to mend a broken heart isn't easy - especially your first love. but it can be done and within time, you'll learn to appreciate the times you did actually get to share with one another and you won't be angry, you'll be glad it happened.
The first stage is always the hardest. It's basically coming to terms with what has happened and realizing everything you give up to him. What you need to do to get past the first stage is to keep your distance from him. Yes, it sounds hard, because you'll probably want to talk to him at any opportunity you get - but you mustn't do it. As far as you are aware, this boy doesn't exist any more. If you see him, don't stop and talk, ignore him. If you used to chat to him online - don't. Delete his number from your phone so you won't be tempted to get in contact.
See your friends as much as possible. Let out all your feelings to them. Good friends will listen and help you get through it. Try to keep yourself occupied so you don't find yourself daydreaming and thinking about him. Keep busy! Read, call your friends, go out, listen to good happy music, exercise, watch a film, tidy your room.. anything.
You'll soon see within time, things will get alot better.
It helps to know you aren't alone in this situation. Guaranteed it has happened or will happen to your friends at some point - not to mention everyone else in the world. Its's life unfortunately. and you will have gained alot of experience from it.
Always remember;
It's better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all.
I hope you start to feel better very soon.
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What I did was...
I just started to hate the person.
I felt sad and so I changed that feeling into something else. And after several months, I felt nothing for him.
But... Just think of the reasons why it wasn't meant to be.
You'll find someone better.
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