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ex boyfriend twice
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 2:26 pm
Ok. Last year I went out with one of my best guy friends. We held hands, talked all of the time, and even kissed. After awhile though things became different. My guy called me sometimes 3 times aday and it became to much so I broke up with him after 3 months. Well I still liked him alot and we went out again. This time he acted totally different!!!!! He hardly ever talked to me, didn't call even one time, or hug me or even hold my hand. I don't get it because I never told him he was too clingy to his face!!!!My friends also told me that he flirted with other girls all of the time. We talked about our problems but nothing changed. He got mad at me for flirting and so I tried to change. I didn't talk to the guy I was flirting with for 3 day...
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Did he love me?
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 8:47 am
I was with a guy for a year. I met him when he came round to fix my taps as he's a plumber!! I thought it was fate that we met that way but I guess I was wrong. I have a little boy who is nearly 4. He took a liking to Paul and called him Daddy. (Big mistake I know). Around the 6 months stage things went wrong and we started to argue. I didn't like the way he spoke to my little boy sometimes. It was like he treated him like he was in the army or something!!!! To cut the story short he left four times over reasons I think aren't good enough to leave. We didn't fall out of love and neither cheated or hit! The last time he left I was asleep in my bed and I woke up to him with black bags packing his stuff. I went absoulutely mad and started thro...
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Bad Timing-Good Guy
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 6:01 am
So, me and my friend just admitted to liking each other about a week ago and we've been talking about dating and being together.
Theres a huge problem, it's way bad timing. He will be leaving for the Marines soon after Thanksgiving. We are both happy to wait but the thing is that this JUST started. I mean, we aren't in love so I'm not sure if these feelings will just fade overtime on his part and I'll be waiting for someone who can't break up with me.
But I really think this guy is great and I'd be passing up the chance with someone wonderful, so I'm pretty stuck.
So I'm wondering if it's a bad idea to start something and ANYONE who has experience to please share their stories, I'm open to any answer:)
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missing him. Ideas??
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 3:10 am
17/f. I have a boyfriend whom I love to death and I think the world of him. He is just great. We are used to spending pretty much every day together but lately over the past three weeks we have both not seen each other because we both have other commitments in new collages and courses and family etc. So we don't get to see each other. He bought me a beautiful present for my birthday and I just want to either write to him (we usually do this) and tell him how much he means to me and how much I miss him. I am a bit stuck about what to write though. We always write to each other and give each other notes when we see each other but I always seem to be saying the same things. What should I tell him?
The other idea I had was to make him so...
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how do you know if a guy likes you??
Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 3:06 am
well, I have this guy..at first I dony really feel anything something special for him..for me his just a friend..a simple plain guy friend..we always talk about anything...I feel comfortable with him coz hes not a typical guy who judge and thinks awful things about girls..hes someone whi is very understanding...but hes someone who is very secretive...by the way he acts I can say that he likes me too..but many girls are after him beacuse his one of the most sought boys in the campus...I dont really know if he feels something special too...I really need your advice...
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Getting Him to Notice
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 11:53 pm
I want to get a guys' number. I mean I know how to flirt, i'm acutally very good at it, it's whatever. but like, for some reason.. I can't get myself to ask him.. I want him to ask me.. but idk, I know he's interested. We talk all the time.. and we always sneak smiles and everytime we see eachother we just immediatly walk up to eachother and start talking.. what can I do to get myself out there more? What can I do to show him that I want him to make a move, or vice versa?
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Kissing Help
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:59 pm
My friend told me my bgf (who she used to date) is a bad kisser and i have kissed him but it was a small kiss and i want to know what I should do about it. He likes to kiss (duh haha) and i am more comfortable with kissing then her(meaning i do it more cause i like it) and its not like planned they are more spur of the moment but i guess talking would kind of work but thats just kind of weird. We talk about a lot of things but i dont know about that. Maybe if we start doing it more. Anyway thanx so much and i will rate all those who help me!
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2 Months
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:50 pm
So I've been dating my boyfriend for only 2 months. I want to know if anyone has any ideas for something cute to do on our 2 month (which is on halloween).. I don't want to do anything too huge.. like, I wasn't thinking along the lines of a present or something like that. we've only been together for 2 months.. but I want to do something cute. Keep in mind that we haven't been together for long and haven't said I Love You or anything. Thanks!
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relationship
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:09 pm
a girl thinks were freinds but i dont rlly lke her. she went out whtt his guy but he broke up with her. now he asked me out. should i say yes? because we really like eachother and shes out of the picture but i dont want to hurt her. any ideas
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Going no where with this.
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 10:06 pm
Okay, I never thought this would happen to me. I thought this kind of...crap for lack of a better word only happened in movies and to weird people.
Anyways, long story short my boyfriend of 6 months cheated on me, and of course I dumped him. He's respected my descision and hasn't been pressuring me into getting back with him. I know I DEFINITELY don't want him back, don't get me wrong I could never take a cheater back, but at the same time I miss him like hell. I don't want him back, but I'm missing him too much, does that even make sense? :\
And also, my friend who has shown interest in me for a long time (He hasn't made a move or anything) seems a lot more attractive to me now, but I'm scared I'm just seeing ...
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love
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 9:54 pm
how do you know when your ex boyfriend is still in love with you
how do you get him back? and getting his trust back. no, i didn't cheat, i lied, but it wasn't really a lie, it was all a misunderstanding, all about a stupid girl. help.
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I like the weird boi.
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 8:49 pm
well hes not that weird.. just kidding. he reads comic books, hes hella cute, and is really nice. its weird that i fell for him.. cause I fell for him because he was so unpredictable. like some things he'd do that you'd think a total loser would do.. and then he just keeps suprising you. hes also good at soccer and guys who play soccer are hott! like once in music (btw im in 8th grade) as a prize to bingo we could get some crappy mcdonalds toy my teacher has or extra credit. he won twice and he kept getting the toy and he was so excited to get it. and the way he talks among other things.. haha when i tell my friends they're confused at how i like him. he probably doesnt like me the same and im not like head over heels... I just think hes re...
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kissing
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 8:48 pm
ok, I had never had a bf before, so naturally I have never kissed a boy before. I have recently gotten a bf, and he wants to kiss... I haven't let him yet, because I dont know what the heck I'm doing! Everyone keeps saying oh just give it a go its something you learn as you do it more, but oh its not like that for me! is there anyway i can practice without actually practiceing... or how do you actually kiss (not just a peck or something like that... but more open mouth... ? I just dont want to completely suck atit! lol thanks for any helP!
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Worried
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 8:46 pm
I'm 17 and I'm going out with this kid who's my first boyfriend. He's so sweet and I'm really glad we're going out. But I'm constantly worried that one day out of nowhere, he's just gonna be like "I don't like you anymore" and dump me. I mean, I know it's gonna happen someday but I'm always obsessing over it, it's even come to the point where I'm so jealous of when he talks to other girls and I'm always asking him if he likes me or not; he assures me that he does. I think it's because I had such low confidence and thought no one liked me before we started going out; it's like I don't know what I'd do without him. Ahhhh is there any way I can stop freaking out about this?
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my heart just doesn't know wat it wants
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 6:38 pm
ugh i have a major problem. i am going out with this really nice guy bobby,he is the sweetest. but i just don't like him that way and now i don't know wat to do cas i don't want him or his family to think im a bitch for breaking up with him cas it has only been about 2 weeks or so. although i also have another problem in this one. i don't want to let go of either one of my ex's. i love them both to death and i don't know wat i would do without them i still talk to them but right now one is mad at me and im trying to fix things.....my heart is lost and confused!!! HELP!!!
please
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i like this girl
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 6:26 pm
heyy 14/m i like this girl from school and im pretty sure she likes me bak--but im having trouble talking to her its like i dont know what to say. what do girls like to talk about? and what do you like to see in a guy? thanks!
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How to get over having screwed it up
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 6:14 pm
Its so much fun, being overly self critical. If you are this type of person, your response is what I'm looking for.
So, I just went through a bad breakup. My girlfriend (almost fiance) was incredibly immature. She had needs that I was not fufilling or being talked to about. She broke up with me because "I was never going to take care of her"
She was and is incredibly selfish. But right now, the needs she had were needs I could have handled without a problem. In the future, that probably wouldnt have been the case, but right now I'm hating myself because I could have made her happy, and I didnt, and she left me. And all I ever got when I tried to work on us were lies or silence.
How do...
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heyy!! i need advice about my b/f
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 5:49 pm
Heyy guys.. Im soo shy around my b/f.. we started going out yesterday and we haven't sed a word to eachother!! plz help!! thx
xodanaox
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a friends friend
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 5:44 pm
i like this guy that my friends in love with
and idk what to do
she asks me to help her.
idk what to do
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still inlove with the ex.
Posted Tuesday October 23 2007, 5:36 pm
Any term you see in red below is not allowed:
our story is long, i'll try my best to keep it short. (its very good though-i've heard.)if i dont give details, you wont be able to help me.
im a girl.
the ex: i'll call him "ken".
both of us a little young for our grade.
i met ken in 7th grade. we had language arts together and instantly hit it off. last day of school, kens friend asked ken to ask me out. (the day ken was gonna ask me too.) ken didnt say how he felt so he asked me out for his ffriend. i liked them both. i thought ken didnt like me since his friend wants to date me, and i told him i would date his friend. 8th grade we broke up and i still liked ken. we became closer a...
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