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still inlove with the ex.
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our story is long, i'll try my best to keep it short. (its very good though-i've heard.)if i dont give details, you wont be able to help me.
im a girl.
the ex: i'll call him "ken".
both of us a little young for our grade.
i met ken in 7th grade. we had language arts together and instantly hit it off. last day of school, kens friend asked ken to ask me out. (the day ken was gonna ask me too.) ken didnt say how he felt so he asked me out for his ffriend. i liked them both. i thought ken didnt like me since his friend wants to date me, and i told him i would date his friend. 8th grade we broke up and i still liked ken. we became closer and we started to date in the beginnning of 8th grade. i told him i wouldnt say "i love you" unless i really meant it. he agreed. so after a couple months, he told me he loved me, and i wasnt quite sure what love meant, but i liked him so much! so i said it back, and i really meant it for what i knew love meant. i broke up with him in the beginning of 9th grade. he was crushed and could barely speak to me for a while. then we became very close again, and i relized how much i missed him and what i had. by this time, he wasnt into me anymore and was into other girls. i was crushed. in the beginning of 9th grade, we dated again, for about a month-fighting a lot-and finally broke up agian. (we agreed to break up.) i was okay, but deep down i knew i wanted him. in the middle of 9th grade, we dated for 2 days. a lot happend in those 2 days-he said we'd go to prom together-then he broke up with me. (im a virgin by the way.) i got so upset, i stopped talking to him for about 3 months-he started cutting and getting into drugs. when i found out, i felt terrible so i started to talk to him again. then he stopped talking to me the last two days of school, because someone told him that i told everyone about his cutting. i was so angry. we hadnt talked the whole summer untill 2 days before school started. he said i shouldnt be sorry for anything and he is very sorry for believing people he barley knew over me. we wanted to be close again, and aventually date again. i told him it was hard for me, because i still loved him. he said he loved me with his whole heart. 10th grade was a struggle for our relationship. now im a junior (11th) and soon to be 16. he just turned 16 a month ago. our relationship is better now. we talk, soon to hang out again, and we eat lunch together-with other people. i really want to talk to him about everything and see what he thinks about everything. he now has this gf for about 3 months. they both are into drugs. i just tried weed and drank before. he tells her he loves her. but people tell me hes not over me. we kinda flirt-hes not a flirty type. friends say he has a "special" smile for me. i dont see it. i want to go to prom with him- i want to spend the rest of my life with him-and sometimes, i think he does to. im so confused. does he want to be with me??? a lot of the time it seems like im just another friend..and not real important..but i want to be important again. i want to be his only concern. i want to get his attention, but not show that i want to get it. what do i do???
if you read this whole thing, and helped me, thank you so much!!!!
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where to start....well.....don't back down.
i know how you feel, i was in sort of this situation just not through this long of a time period.
you know what you want, and that's what you're gonna get. talk to him and don't make acceptions.
you need to show him that you are strong, and you have to be persistent. ask him if he really wants to live a life like that-drugs, etc... make him tell you the truth. once he sees that he really means a lot to you, maybe he'll smarten up. it's just that some guys think "oh i'm young i'll do whatever the hell i want."
really, it's not like that. this age shapes pretty much a LOT of our lives. if he wants you, tell him to shape up because you're not gonna deal with it anymore.
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wow that one hell of a story but i will tell you this dont get back wiht him it has not worked before i wont work again but be friends beacuse it seems its just not really meant to be .but do help him with a drug problem beacuse until it his clean i dont think it good for you to date him beacuse he is sick and wat he needs is help from a friend(you)!so my answer fomr reading your stroy is that it is not meant to be you tired alot of times and i has not worked why go thoruh it again.hope i helped
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