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missing him. Ideas??
17/f. I have a boyfriend whom I love to death and I think the world of him. He is just great. We are used to spending pretty much every day together but lately over the past three weeks we have both not seen each other because we both have other commitments in new collages and courses and family etc. So we don't get to see each other. He bought me a beautiful present for my birthday and I just want to either write to him (we usually do this) and tell him how much he means to me and how much I miss him. I am a bit stuck about what to write though. We always write to each other and give each other notes when we see each other but I always seem to be saying the same things. What should I tell him?
The other idea I had was to make him something really special and give it to him.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I should do??
Thanks so much to anyone who can heko,
This means heaps to me.
xx
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i'm sure if you were to write to him, you'd want to write FOREVER and that's okay. do it. tell him how much you love him, how much he means to you, and how hard it is to say it sometimes. it works (trust me). maybe write a little poem, or add in figurative language to your little love letter. make him laugh and say how cheesy you feel writing all that love stuff to him.
and if you wanna give him something, go for it. get him something that suits his interests. or, put a picture of you two in a frame and say "i'll never forget that day" or something.
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I don't think it would matter if you think you're always saying the same thing. What matters is that you're making the effort. Write about something funny that's happened to you together, what you've done since you started college, new friends, and of course how much you miss him.
As for what to make or buy, you know him best. Is he the tickets-to-a-concert type, or his-favorite-sports-team-jersey type? It'd also be awesome if, say, one Saturday night a month you went out for dinner and/or a movie, just the two of you. Or with friends, whichever you prefer. That way, you're not overwhelming each other & still have the time for other commitments, but you can still spend some quality time together too.
-LM
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