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my heart just doesn't know wat it wants
ugh i have a major problem. i am going out with this really nice guy bobby,he is the sweetest. but i just don't like him that way and now i don't know wat to do cas i don't want him or his family to think im a bitch for breaking up with him cas it has only been about 2 weeks or so. although i also have another problem in this one. i don't want to let go of either one of my ex's. i love them both to death and i don't know wat i would do without them i still talk to them but right now one is mad at me and im trying to fix things.....my heart is lost and confused!!! HELP!!!
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Razhie's right.
as much as you want everyone to be happy, i don't think that's humanly possible. if it's not one thing, it's another.
if you don't like your current bf, then you shouldn't be with him, and if you say the right things no one's gonna think you're a bitch. just tell him the truth. maybe tell him a boyfriend isn't right for you right now (because honestly, you don't seem like you need one)
all you need is friends. good, close guy friends. your ex's are perfect because it shows that you can still be friends with them, but you thinking about having a boyfriend might be getting in the way of it.
when it's time for a boyfriend, you'll know. just don't jump to it. you have PLENTY of time.
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Your heart is far, far too concerned with making everyone happy.
What your boyfriend's family thinks of you is not something you should worry about, and it's not something you can control. If you don't want to be with this guy, you owe it to him to say as much. Staying with him is lying to him.
It's great if exes can stay friends, but the ex relationship is very, very emotionally charged. Sometimes they just can't and it really isn't a relationship you should be bending over backwards to maintain. If you have done something wrong, apologize, if not, don't spend so much engry on 'fixing'.
Think a little bit more of yourself, rather then what other people think of you. You can control yourself. You'll never be able to control thier thoughts.
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