Question Posted Wednesday October 24 2007, 2:26 pm
Ok. Last year I went out with one of my best guy friends. We held hands, talked all of the time, and even kissed. After awhile though things became different. My guy called me sometimes 3 times aday and it became to much so I broke up with him after 3 months. Well I still liked him alot and we went out again. This time he acted totally different!!!!! He hardly ever talked to me, didn't call even one time, or hug me or even hold my hand. I don't get it because I never told him he was too clingy to his face!!!!My friends also told me that he flirted with other girls all of the time. We talked about our problems but nothing changed. He got mad at me for flirting and so I tried to change. I didn't talk to the guy I was flirting with for 3 days. my boyfriend got mad at me again when I wasn't even talking to the other guy!!!!!!! I got so mad! Especially since he was still flirting with this girl in front of me!!!!! I had no choice but to dump him!!!!! I still liked him though. I just missed how he used to be I guess. I would rather him be to clingy then almost totally ignore me. He was like a totally different person!!!!! NOW WE DON't EVEN TALK AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!! I still like him so much and I don't know what to do because we are broken up and we don't even talk!!!!!!!! I want to tell him that I broke up with him because he was different but that will be weird because we have broken up 2 times and we totally ignore eachother.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adverb answered Thursday October 25 2007, 2:06 pm: if you wanna talk to him, then do it. since you guys are/were best friends and could talk about anything, let him know that and let him know you're serious. (on a side note, sometimes people get more fussy and dramatic when they hear things from other people)..just say "look. i really like you and i'm sorry if i upset you by flirting, but i felt the same way when you were flirting with other girls." something like that, but you need to communicate with him. wishing for it to all be better isn't gonna work unless you take action. [ adverb's advice column | Ask adverb A Question ]
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