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boyfriend jealousy
My boyfriend is alot like me and we click really well. We call eachother on the phone almost every night but the thing is that he is really shy. My last boyfriend kissed me and held my hand. My before now never even hugs me. I want him to hold my hand and maybe kiss me but I don't know how to tell him or give him signs. Also sometimes he is really inconsiderate. Like I got my hair and makeup done and bought a new dress for this dance and told him about it. I told him I would like him to go. The next day I asked him if he was going and he said yeah his parents were making him go. It hurt my feelings because I was going to take time to look pretty and he didn't even care if he went or not. It seems like he would want to go because I would be going!!!!! BUT NO!!!!!! also he flirts with girls right in front of my face and he acts like I am not there!!!!!!!!!
He really is a great guy but I need to know how to give him signs to be less shy and more considerate. I really want to kiss or hold hands and he is taking way to long. I want him to make the first move because I believe that guys should do it first.
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sometimes you don't always get what you want. maybe try holding his hand first. just because you believe that guys should make the first move doesn't mean they're going to, and if things don't work out in this one then you can believe it in the next one.
and also, tell him off! don't just let him hurt your feelings and not express it, but don't be too emotional because that's just not what guys want to see. if he's flirting with other girls, then either walk away or take him away from them and if he's got a problem, ask him what's more important, other girls or you?. tell him that he's flirting and that you don't like it.
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HEY, If he's shy and you don't know what to do to get him to kiss or hold your hand why don't you just kiss him and hold his hand that way soon he will get over his shyness and know that you love him he might stop flirting with other girls because then he'll know he can kiss you @ first he probley didn't know if he should because he might have thought that you didn't want to so he didn't do it that's why YOU need to kiss and hold his hand
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