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cheating


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 10:34 pm

so theres this guy that i like, but he has a girlfriend. well, we talk everynight and he tells me how he wants me and how he doesn't like the other girl. well , we have talked a lot about doing stuff with each other. so i just wanted to get an honest opinion on what people feel about this .. and he says he would date me if he wasn't taken so what are some ways i can step up my game a little ?? thankss.

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dont know what to do anymore


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:59 pm

hey guys.
***CAUTION: may be long****

so here is my problem:
this guy named "K" really likes me (I mean REALLY). But i do not like him at all, and like one of his best friends.

today i figured out that the person that i like "D" also has a secret crush on me. D is one of my best friends, and he is super sweet, kind, and thoughful...did i mention cute too???

the word spreads that D likes me, and soon everyone in school knows....even K.

K and D are no longer friends, and K is really mad at him for liking me too. because D knows that K REALLY REALLY likes me.

Now get this....K and i are kinda friends. and K gets mad real easy ...

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what makes a wife cheat?????


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:52 pm

does any female care to tell me what makes a wife cheat and is there help out there for this?????

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(girls only!)can u help me i need options on what to do plea


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:50 pm

well theres this girl i like of course and she knows it very well that i do but im not an expert on what to do and we hardly talk ever since i told her i liked her i mean i would understand if she liked me and still didnt cause every one tells her i do but when i hear them do that and there all laughing and so is she but i dont know what to do so i look away and now i realize that was stupid and i looked at her and she looked mad but now it looks like she likes me more then she has ever oh should i care what anyone thinks but her i mean i dont want people picking on her for me liking her i think i should talk to alot more because this year we have no classes together but i love her with all my heart and soul and dont want to hurt her in ...

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insecure boyfriend


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:17 pm

my boyfriend is very insecure and asks me over and over again certain questions like "are you cheating on me?" or "Are you doing drugs?" because we are straightedge so hes always afraid of me breaking it and doing drugs because a year ago i hid doing drugs from him before i was straightedge but anyways. Hes trying to work on it and he said someone told him that he has to ask me to make it better and really thats not working at all because its been going on for a year and still has not gotten better.
I'm wondering how to make him feel better or help him with his insecurites.
Yes I always so no I won't do that and I'm not doing that and i understand about it now but I just don't want him to feel this way
...

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Major Confusing Love Triangle


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 9:05 pm

so this is going to be my first question. but none of my friends seem to be trustworthy to me right now so i can't ask them, i've been pretty paranoid lately. so here it goes, o by the way i am 13 and am female:

I had an AMAZING boyfriend, who asked me to be his girlfriend on the day before the last day of school, over AIM but it was still sweet. we texted, and talked on the phone ALL SUMMER. and i grew to well, love him. and so now this year we never talked, we were to shy. and so he talked to my bff alot more. he started to like my bff. which i didn't know about, and my bff started to like him. so they were pretty much cheating on me behind my back. and so i broke up with him, needless to say. and then my friend decided she...

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How can u tell if a dude likez u?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 8:56 pm

13/F

I like this kid, Alex. Well, we hang out A LOT. he's knows I like him and stuff, but it don't bother him... Well, at least that's what i thought until today. This is embarrassing, but he touched my boob. He likes to.... 'touch' me. Like poke and stuff. Well, he reached out and grabbed my boob. I asked him what that was for. He said, it was fun and interesting. Let's cut in here. Why would I guy say that??? Anyway, on word! As we walked down to the bus, he kept rubboing my arm. He was rub his face on it and say it was funny and stuff. Then, he touched my lips and my cheek. he even touched my eye! which was creepy... Oh, and during.... Reading class thing (Core Skillz) He makes these jokes about blow jobs and perverted stu...

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what do i do?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 8:48 pm

well i have this kinda girlfriend. and well we used to be together when i lived in the same town i moved to live closer to family and she got upset. whenever i go see her it is like we never broke up and she begs me to move back so we can be together. now i love her sooooo much but i dont think i want to go through all the drama. i go toschool and i like where i am the thing is i love being with her and i love everything about her. what do i do?

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what is going on in that head of his?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 7:51 pm

so this kid that i like tells me he wants to be single, then i hear from someone that he likes someone and then i see him hanging out with this freshman girl (we're juniors) and this girl is pretty slutty but then he gives her a hug. this kid doesn't know i like him but i REALLY like him so i'll do almost anything for him to like me without getting too desperate. we have a lot of classes together and i talk to him a lot because i'm trying to get to know him and from what i know so far, he's perfect and extremely sweet. so does he want to be single or not? if you want to be single why would you bother liking someone?

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same problem


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 7:51 pm

ok the problem i wrote before bout a picture abd all..well at the rec. department tonight he came.. and i think he knows i know..so what do i do...cause it looks like he is made at me..and when i left i huged a guy in front of him and said nothing..so please help....and basketball season is starting and im cheering and he is playin so mabey we could talk then??

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how can u tell when someone is flirting with you?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 7:50 pm

how can u tell when someone is flirting with you?

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how do i flirt?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 7:49 pm

how do you online? like what do you sayy?!


and what do u say or do when ur flirting in person too?

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problem with boyfriend/his parents


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 7:40 pm

Okay, Might Be a Little Long-ish, SORRY!

15/F

i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months so far, and what we have done includes:
making out
feeling up
handjobs
fingering

okay, so i told him that i was going to give him a blow job for his birthday which is on tuesday :) haha. so i was planning on it for tomrrow, and we were gonna go to a football game at school and go somewehre for a while :D
BUT, last night i was hanging out with him and he tells me that NO, he thinks we shouldnt do that!
i was like, wtf. i thought you wanted it.

problem: HIS PARENTS.
his parents don't really trust him, and they randomly check his phone for texts, and ...

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i love you.


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 6:43 pm

my boyfriend has been saying i love you for a couple of months now. i do say it online but not in person or over the phone yet. he understands i'm waiting for the right moment. [btw, i'm speaking from a 9 month relationship]

it's just i don't know what's wrong with me. i can feel it, but the words don't come out. i love you is like saying sorry. by the age 7 or 8, i never spoke of those words [to parents or friends]... maybe because i was embarrassed or i dont know. i want to say it but i'm afraid i'll freeze up. i'm naturally quiet, close to a mute anyway. so maybe it's the anxiety or the experience/reaction of his that's scaring me. i felt forced to say it [over the phone] in another relationship.. but this one.. i told th...

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Shona, have I loved?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 5:56 pm

I love this girl.
She lives in Ireland, and I live in the US. Her mother decided last week I'm not allowed to speak to her anymore. Naturally, I'm heartbroken.
How can I get over her? (15/f)
HELP!!

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age


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 5:29 pm

well lets just say i think i like a younger guy..and he is about 2 and a half years younger...would it be wrong to date?

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why do boys hate it when girls cry?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 5:28 pm

why do boys hate it when girls cry?

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Omg!! Wat do I do!?!?!?!


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 5:26 pm

Ok this guy i really really like was startin to like me back ok.
Well i was walking down the hallway with him and he hugged me and he wispered in my ear that he really liked me.
Well my X-step brother {haha} is going out with this girl and i found out she is cheating on him!!! With the guy i like!!!
UGGGHHH!
So i told my brother and he dumped her ahahahaha and i tried to tell this guy i like the truth but i knew he wouldnt believe me bc i like him.. Well i told my friend is said hey go tell him that his girl friend is cheating on him but you didnt hear it from me.
Well she got back and she said "His exact words were, i dont care you are prob just making this up so i will go out with {{ Im not gonna sa...

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I have absolutely no clue what to do


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 4:12 pm

okay.
well there this really sweet guy whos kinda shy, whos 18 and totally hot.
but he blazes,
and i dont really know what he expects of girls to do with him when they're together, or even just chillen.
so i asked him if hes just looking to fool around with girls or a gf, and he said neither really im just single,
now what does that mean ?
and, he always txts me saying babe and cutie and stuff :)
so idk what to do.
i dont want to come on too strong,
but i want to know lmao.
all my friends say i can get whoever i want,
but idk ! :P

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conversation?


Posted Thursday November 1 2007, 4:07 pm

alright so me and this guy are dating and like i have no problems keeping conversations with guys at all..like i never have in my life.EVER! soo im going out with this guy and we never talk at lunch or ever..we cant keep a conversation..we talk sometimes in the hallways..i mean its not awkward...but i want more to talk about. me and him are going to the mall together this weekend..how do i keep a conversation without trying to sound desperate or cheesy (: thankss

and p.s. we both like eachother and i think its nerves..but any ideas on how to get over them. cause i like him alot an he likes me too but i dont want him to stop liking me cause we never talk..

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