so this kid that i like tells me he wants to be single, then i hear from someone that he likes someone and then i see him hanging out with this freshman girl (we're juniors) and this girl is pretty slutty but then he gives her a hug. this kid doesn't know i like him but i REALLY like him so i'll do almost anything for him to like me without getting too desperate. we have a lot of classes together and i talk to him a lot because i'm trying to get to know him and from what i know so far, he's perfect and extremely sweet. so does he want to be single or not? if you want to be single why would you bother liking someone?
scootermclisle answered Friday November 2 2007, 4:17 pm: It's obvious that you aren't that close to this guy if you think he's perfect and feel the need to ask random strangers if he would date you. Try becoming his friend before you start worring about dating him.
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"i said i talk to him a lot, not that i'm best friends with him or close to him. if you're going to be an advicenator then don't tell people to stop asking advice from strangers because if they didn't then there wouldn't be a website dedicated to it. i'm too nice to give you a one so deal with a 3."
You might want to get on that instead of wasting your time online. And for the record, I'm an advicenator to give people the honest truth, not to pat them on the back for hiding behind their computer screens. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
thelaura answered Friday November 2 2007, 1:25 pm: Only he knows the true answer to this question.
There's a number of reasons, though:
*He does want to be single and he's just being friendly with that other girl
*He told you he wanted to be single because he knows you like him but doesn't feel the same
*Having fun without the commitment - staying single but hooking up.
If you've already asked him, why not ask for his reasons? Who knows, he may have changed his mind since telling you he wants to be single - and now he wants to date. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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