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problem with boyfriend/his parents
Okay, Might Be a Little Long-ish, SORRY!
15/F
i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months so far, and what we have done includes:
making out
feeling up
handjobs
fingering
okay, so i told him that i was going to give him a blow job for his birthday which is on tuesday :) haha. so i was planning on it for tomrrow, and we were gonna go to a football game at school and go somewehre for a while :D
BUT, last night i was hanging out with him and he tells me that NO, he thinks we shouldnt do that!
i was like, wtf. i thought you wanted it.
problem: HIS PARENTS.
his parents don't really trust him, and they randomly check his phone for texts, and read his emails, and actually took away his laptop. they are nice to me whenever i come over, but i know that his mom thinks i'm a slut. HA!
anyways, he says we should stop doing ANYTHING for a while, since he's paranoid and his parents know a lot more than he thought they did about what we've done.
so what do i do about this situation? i'm a very horny child (LOL) and don't want to stop doing stuff with him, and plus this is making him unhappy and i don't like that!!
sry, it's long, but please help if you can. <3
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I would say that you definitely dont want to do anything that may get him in trouble with his parents. That kind of thing can make you not see him for a long time. Remember, they have all the power. If your boyfriend choses to respect his parents wishes or simply stay safe from any problems with them, then respect that.
There will be plenty of time for pleasing the one you love but maybe he is not ready for all you are bringing to the table. Slow it down and dont show him that not wanting to do that is affecting you sooo much.
You may be horney but you are right, you are a child, try to gain his mothers respect by showing her you and her son can enjoy eachother at a child's level and maybe she will learn to respect you. If she has been reading his mail and text messages, she may not respect your actions and you and him may be farther apart soon enough.
Give it a try!!
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You should respect his decisions. He said it would only be for a while, so in that time, just spend quality time together and have fun without the sexual side. When he's ready to get intimate again,
it will make it more exciting and worth it because you have been waiting.
Think how he is feeling for a minute - I bet he's not exactly best pleased about the situation either!
Also, if his parents did find out about everything you've done and don't appreciate the fact their son is getting sexual at that age, they could put the whole relationship to a halt. So in a way, you should feel lucky you still get to be with him.
Good luck. :)
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